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Understanding Withdrawal in Porn Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Pornography addiction is a widespread issue that affects individuals on both psychological and emotional levels. Withdrawal from pornography use can be an intense and...

Understanding Betrayal Trauma: A Guide for Wives Navigating Infidelity

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Reality of Betrayal Trauma For over two decades, I have worked with women who have experienced deep emotional wounds due to infidelity. Betrayal trauma is not just...

Underneath the Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Awakening That Comes with Sobriety Men struggling with pornography addiction often believe their primary issue is simply excessive sexual behavior. However, once they...

The Role of Healthy Self-Esteem in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Link Between Self-Esteem and Recovery Recovering from pornography addiction requires more than just abstinence; it involves rebuilding a healthy...

The Myth of the Quick Fix in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Trap of Seeking Immediate Results Many men struggling with pornography addiction desire an immediate solution, hoping to overcome their compulsive behaviors with...

Learning Internal Boundaries in Sex Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sex addiction recovery is a multifaceted journey requiring significant self-awareness and behavioral transformation. A critical aspect of this process is learning and...

Learning to Be an Amazing Father for Your Son

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey   A father’s influence on his son shapes the way he sees himself, interacts with the world, and defines success. Research highlights that sons who share a strong...

Preparation for Full Disclosure in Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Men struggling with sexual addiction often face significant challenges in managing their emotions, which complicates the recovery process. As Corley and Schneider (2012)...

Understanding Anxiety: Breaking the Cycle of Overthinking and Fear

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Anxiety is one of the most common mental health challenges, affecting millions of people worldwide. It manifests in various ways, from excessive worry and restlessness to...

Understanding Invasive Abuse and Its Role in Sexual Addiction Tendencies

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Invasive abuse, in its various forms, can deeply affect children, leaving emotional and psychological scars that may predispose them to sexual addiction tendencies later in...

The Impact of Rigid Boundaries on Children and Their Future Sexuality

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Parental boundaries are essential for a child’s development, offering structure, safety, and guidance. However, when these boundaries become excessively rigid, they can...

The Healing Power of a 'Celibacy Period' in Overcoming Sexual Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Using a celibacy period as a tool to reset oneself apart from sexual addiction has proven to be a transformative practice for many seeking recovery. This intentional choice to...

The Freedom of Surrender: Admitting Pornography Addiction and Trusting God

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey For many people, admitting a struggle with pornography addiction is one of the most difficult steps they will ever take. It’s a moment filled with conflicting...

The Critical Role of Identifying Triggers in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In the struggle to overcome pornography addiction, identifying triggers is a cornerstone of lasting recovery. Many men fail to maintain sobriety because they do not fully...

The Benefits of Full Disclosure for Partners in the Context of Intimate Betrayal

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Full disclosure in intimate betrayal situations offers partners of those who struggle with sexual addiction a transformative opportunity to confront the truth in a safe...

Teaching Young Men to Support One Another in Difficult Times

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Our culture has long emphasized the notion of individual toughness for men, often discouraging open vulnerability and emotional support. Phrases like “man up”...

Rediscovering Healthy Sexuality in Recovery from Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD For individuals recovering from sexual addiction, one of the most challenging aspects of healing is learning what healthy sexuality looks like. Many have struggled to...

Implementing Boundaries: Setting Up Parental Controls to Protect Your Child

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Need for Boundaries With the increasing accessibility of digital content, protecting children from pornography exposure has become a major concern for...

How to Recognize and Overcome Burnout in a Fast-Paced World

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In a world that constantly demands more of our time and energy, burnout has become a silent epidemic. Long hours, constant connectivity, and the pressure to excel often leave...

How Rumination Feeds Despair and Can Lead to Suicidality

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Rumination is a mental process that can trap individuals in cycles of negative thought, increasing their risk of emotional distress and suicidal ideation. While reflection...

How Pornography Wrecks Your View of Sex

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Pornography's False Depiction of Sex Pornography has become a dominant force in shaping sexual perceptions, yet its portrayal of sex is profoundly misleading. As Tim...

How Pornography Addiction Changes Men's Perceptions of Women

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Objectification of Women Through Pornography Pornography addiction significantly alters how men perceive women, leading to the objectification of women rather than...

Healing After Betrayal: Steps to Rebuild Trust and Self-Worth

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Devastation of Betrayal Infidelity shatters more than just a marriage—it dismantles a woman’s sense of security, trust, and self-worth. For over two...

Guidance for Mothers About Addressing Your Son's Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Recognizing the Need for Boundaries and Support Many mothers struggle when they realize their son may be dealing with a pornography addiction. The internet has made...

Four Types of Child Abuse

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Child abuse is a pervasive issue affecting millions of children worldwide. While awareness has grown, many people still struggle to identify the signs and understand the...

Effective Communication Strategies: Talking to Your Son About Pornography

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Challenge Many mothers find it difficult to talk to their sons about pornography, yet open communication is crucial in shaping a child's...

The Dangers of Sextortion: How Young Lives Are Being Destroyed

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Growing Threat of Sextortion Sextortion is a deeply troubling and growing threat, particularly for teens and young adults. With the rise of digital communication and...

LDS Men Overcoming Sexual Confusion and Pornography Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey I have had the privilege of working with many Latter-day Saint (LDS) men who seek to live a life in harmony with gospel teachings. Many of these men struggle with sexual...

Leading Your Family in Faith: A Guide for Christian Fathers

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Raising a family in today’s world comes with challenges, but for Christian fathers, the call to lead your family in faith is both a privilege and a responsibility. As...

Overcoming Self-Doubt in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey One of the most challenging aspects of pornography addiction is the persistent self-doubt that can plague an individual throughout their struggle. Feelings of inadequacy,...

The Destructive Cycle of Secrecy, Shame, and Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Hidden Power of Toxic Shame Shame is one of the most powerful forces driving compulsive pornography use. Patrick Carnes (2015) states, “To have secrets is to have...

The Crucial Role of Mothers in Raising Healthy Sons

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey The influence of mothers in the development of their sons is profound and multifaceted. From early childhood through adolescence, a mother's guidance significantly shapes...

Steps to Permanently Overcome Porn Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Overcoming pornography addiction is a challenging but achievable goal. Many individuals who struggle with compulsive sexual behaviors find that quitting on their own is...

Responding to the Discovery of Sexual Abuse

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Initial Emotional Response When a child discloses sexual abuse, it is natural for caregivers to experience a range of emotions, including shock, anger, fear, and sadness....

Recognizing the Signs: When to Seek Help for Pornography Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Mothers play an indispensable role in the lives of their sons, especially during the formative years of adolescence. It is in this crucial stage that young boys transition...

The Impact of Childhood Trauma on Adult Relationships

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Childhood experiences shape the foundation of who we are, influencing our emotional, mental, and social development. When a child endures trauma—whether through abuse,...

Preoccupation and Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Prevalence of Sexual Addiction and the Role of Preoccupation Sexual addiction is a growing concern in the digital age, affecting individuals and relationships across...

Recognizing the Signs: Is My Son Struggling with Pornography Addiction?

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Struggle Pornography addiction is a growing concern, affecting individuals across all age groups, including young men and adolescent boys. As a mother,...

Recognizing the Signs of Betrayal Trauma: What Every Wife Should Know

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Discovering betrayal in marriage is one of the most painful experiences a wife can endure. Whether through infidelity, hidden addictions, or ongoing deception, betrayal...

Navigating Pornography Addiction Relapse: Staying Ahead of the Cycle

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Over the years, I have worked with countless men struggling to maintain recovery from pornography addiction. Many have found that staying ahead of the relapse...

The Brain's Counterfeit Attachment: How Pornography Addiction Compensates for Unmet Relationship Needs

The Illusion of Connection Pornography addiction is often misunderstood as merely a compulsive behavior or moral failing, but deeper psychological factors are at play. One of the core drivers...

Tackling Loneliness and Depression in College-Aged Men

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Loneliness and depression among young men in college have become increasingly prevalent, exacerbated by academic pressure, social expectations, and the challenges of...

Balancing Work, Faith, and Fatherhood: Practical Tips for Christian Dads

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Being a Christian dad often feels like walking a tightrope—balancing work responsibilities, faith commitments, and the demands of fatherhood can be overwhelming. Yet,...

Betrayal and the Pain of Relational Trauma

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Betrayal in a committed relationship often results in deep emotional trauma, leaving the injured spouse grappling with profound feelings of pain and confusion. In my...

Breaking the Silence: Anxiety Struggles Among Men

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Anxiety is often seen as a struggle that primarily affects women, but millions of men also suffer from it—often in silence. Cultural expectations, societal pressures,...

Preventing Pornography Addiction Relapse

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Relapse prevention in pornography addiction recovery is one of the most critical yet challenging aspects of long-term healing. In my office, I have seen men break down in...
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