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Three Cognitive Distortions That Undermine Your Self-Esteem

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Low self-esteem remains a central issue for many individuals navigating emotional health concerns, from anxiety to depression. It not only affects personal fulfillment but...

How Thinking Patterns Shape Our Self-Esteem

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Self-esteem is foundational to our emotional and mental well-being. It influences how we view ourselves, relate to others, and navigate life’s challenges. When...

The Critical Role of Adults' Response When Boys Are Sexually Abused

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Unspoken Wounds Sexual abuse among boys is more common than many acknowledge, yet it remains shrouded in silence. Unlike societal narratives that often focus on female...

Roots of Sexual Addiction: How Disconnection and Abuse Can Drive Youth Toward Sexual Compulsion

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Disconnected and Vulnerable Children thrive in environments rich in emotional connection, safety, and affirmation. When these needs are unmet—especially in homes...

The Power of Boundaries in Healthy Emotional Development

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Many individuals entering therapy or coaching are unsure about where their responsibilities begin and end, both internally and externally. Boundaries—those invisible...

When Pornography Targets Our Children: Patience and Compassion

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In today’s world, children are not merely stumbling across pornography—they are being targeted by it. The ease of digital access, the rise of visual media, and...

Teaching God-Given Sexuality in a Pornographic World

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Navigating Parenting and Faith in the Age of Digital Temptation In an era when smartphones, tablets, and virtual reality headsets can offer unfiltered access to explicit...

The Lasting Impact of Fathers on Their Children

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey The presence and engagement of fathers in a child’s life have long been undervalued, especially in early developmental years. However, emerging research continues to...

The Essential Role of Fathers in Raising Emotionally Healthy Children

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey The importance of fathers for identity formation In today’s culture, many families face the subtle temptation to place the full burden of parenting on mothers,...

The Critical Role of Fathers in Co-Parenting and Child Development

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey The role of fathers in raising emotionally healthy and resilient children is gaining long-overdue recognition. As more families shift away from traditional parenting...

Understanding Your Defenses Against Pain

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Many individuals who’ve experienced emotional trauma or ongoing distress unconsciously develop defense mechanisms that serve to protect them from further pain. Claudia...

The Journey Inward: Changing From the Inside Out in Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Inner Side Addiction recovery isn't merely about behavior modification—it is a profound journey toward reclaiming the self. For individuals...

Disconnected by Connection: The Risk of Virtual Relationships in Fueling Online Sexual Behavior

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Illusion of Intimacy The rapid rise of digital communication has transformed how people interact, creating a world where messages and emojis often replace real...

Cultivating Deeper Bonds: Friendship and the Courage of Self-Disclosure

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In the fast-paced modern world, friendship can often fall to the wayside—reduced to sporadic texts or brief interactions on social media. Yet, meaningful connection...

The Power of Brotherhood: Friendship in the Fight Against Pornography Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Friendship and accountability for Christian men battling pornography addiction Overcoming addiction, especially pornography addiction, can feel like an overwhelming and...

The Gift of Friendship: Why Some People Never Lack Companionship

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Why Some People Always Have Friends and the Secret to Deep, Lasting Relationships In a world filled with social media followers and surface-level connections, the longing...

Healing from a Shame-Based Identity

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Shame is a powerful emotional experience that can shape an individual's identity from early life and well into adulthood. Often rooted in traumatic experiences, abuse,...

He Survived the Sextortion - Journey of Pain

(*Names have been changed to protect the privacy of this young man’s story) By Floyd Godfrey, PhD My name is Kyle, and my life was shattered when I got caught in a sextortion scheme. It...

Responding to Sextortion and Residual Trauma

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Creating Safety Through Calm and Compassion Discovering that your child is caught in a sextortion situation can be one of the most alarming moments in a parent's...

Sextortion - What to do if it happens to you

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sextortion, a form of online exploitation where individuals are coerced into providing explicit images or money under threat, has become increasingly prevalent among...

What are Deepfake Nudes - A Growing Concern for Youth

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The rise of deepfake technology—where artificial intelligence (AI) generates hyper-realistic but fake media—has introduced new threats to youth, especially in...

What is the Arousal Template

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Patterns and the Human Brain Sexual addiction recovery often begins with understanding the deep-seated psychological patterns that drive behavior. As Patrick Carnes...

The Crisis of Identity in a Post-Truth Culture

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In today's digital age, where identity can be self-defined and truth is often viewed as subjective, individuals are experiencing a quiet but profound mental health...

Let God Handle It: Granting God the License to Restore Your Recovery Journey

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Burden of Overcontrol In recovery work—especially in the realm of pornography and sexual addiction—clients often come in tightly wound, gripping their...

Living with High-Functioning Anxiety

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In today’s high-paced world, anxiety is more than common—it’s often worn as a badge of productivity. High-functioning anxiety, in particular, tends to...

Analyzing Pornhub 2024 Year in Review: Insights into Evolving Sexual Preferences

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The digital age has significantly influenced sexual behaviors and preferences, with online platforms providing a lens into these evolving trends. Pornhub's 2024 Year in...

Youth and Mental Health - Bark's 2024 Annual Report

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The digital landscape continues to evolve, presenting new challenges for youth and those dedicated to their well-being. Bark's 2024 Annual Report offers a comprehensive...

Helping Teens with Compulsive Sexual Behavior

The Growing Challenge of Adolescent Sexual Compulsivity In today's hypersexualized culture, teens are increasingly vulnerable to developing compulsive sexual behaviors. With digital access,...

From Shame to Strength: A Father's Call to Bold Leadership

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Every father carries a story. For some, it's marked with deep joy and proud memories. For others, it's weighed down by regret—words spoken in anger, seasons of...

Surviving False Witness: Finding Strength in the Storm

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Have you ever been falsely accused or misrepresented by someone you once trusted? Has your name been dragged through the mud by lies, gossip, or a carefully crafted smear...

Chloe Cole: A Journey from Transgender to Detransition

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Who Is Chloe Cole? Chloe Cole is an American activist known for her outspoken stance against medical gender transitions for minors. Born in California in 2004, Chloe...

Early Exposure to Pornography and Sexual Confusion in Adolescence

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Why Early Exposure Matters Today's children are growing up in a world where digital content is everywhere—and often unfiltered. Unfortunately, this means many...

When Dad Falls from Grace - Helping Teens Process the Shock of Infidelity or Sex Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD A Painful Truth for Many Teens Discovering that your father—someone you've looked up to, trusted, and perhaps idolized—has had an affair or is battling...

Guidance for Addressing Your Son With Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding Pornography Addiction in Adolescents The accessibility of explicit content on the internet has contributed to a rising concern among...

Understanding Sexual Paraphilias: A Psychological Perspective

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Defining Sexual Paraphilias Sexual paraphilias refer to persistent, atypical sexual interests that extend beyond conventional sexual behaviors. While some paraphilic...

Hitting Rock Bottom and Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Painful Reality of Hitting Bottom For many individuals struggling with sex addiction, true recovery only begins when they reach a breaking point—when the...

Transparency in Teen Ministry: Fostering an Environment of Openness

By Floyd Godfrey *To watch my presentation on this topic: YouTube.   As pastors and volunteers dedicated to nurturing the spiritual growth of our Christian youth, understanding and...

Understanding Gender Confusion: Insights from Walt Heyer's Journey

By Floyd Godfrey *This article explores the complex issue of gender confusion through the lens of Walt Heyer, an individual who publicly shares his journey through gender transition and regret,...

Understanding the Sexual Addiction Cycle and Overcoming Pornography Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey   In the realms of mental health and recovery, few topics are as pervasive and challenging as the sexual addiction cycle and pornography addiction. This article aims...

Understanding Trust Issues in Pornography Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey   The journey of overcoming pornography addiction is as much about healing the heart as it is about breaking the habit. At the core of many addiction stories lies a...

Withdrawal Symptoms in the Battle Against Pornography Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey   Overcoming pornography addiction is a significant challenge for many, marked not just by the effort to break free from habitual behaviors but also by the withdrawal...

The Dangers of Pornography Addiction: Recognizing and Overcoming a Hidden Struggle

By Floyd Godfrey   In an era where digital content is at our fingertips, pornography addiction has emerged as a pressing concern, posing significant dangers to mental health,...

The Hallmarks of an Effective Small Group Leader in Teen Ministry

By Floyd Godfrey *To watch my presentation on this topic: YouTube.   In the heart of every vibrant youth ministry lies a network of small groups, each a microcosm of the larger...

The Impact of Early Childhood Exposure to Pornography on Neurological Development and Adult Pornography...

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey   The digital age has ushered in unprecedented access to pornography, with increasingly younger audiences finding it within reach. This early childhood exposure to...

The Complexities of Sex and Pornography Addiction as an Attachment Disorder

Dr. Floyd Godfrey   Sex and pornography addiction are increasingly recognized as complex issues that extend beyond mere behavioral problems, delving deep into the realm of attachment...

Pornography Addiction, Toxic Shame, and Spirituality

By Floyd Godfrey   In the modern digital age, the challenge of pornography addiction is increasingly prevalent among many, including Christians. This addiction is not only a physical or...

Navigating Gender Identity: Understanding and Support for Those Considering Detransition

Dr. Floyd Godfrey   In recent times, the discourse around gender identity and transgender experiences has grown significantly. Alongside this, an emerging narrative of individuals...

Maintaining Faith Through the Journey: Overcoming Pornography Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey   The Prevalence of Pornography Addiction In today's digital age, pornography addiction has emerged as a significant challenge affecting many, including those...

Group Cohesion Dynamics - Powerful Small Groups in Teen Ministry

By Floyd Godfrey *To watch my presentation on this topic: YouTube.   Group cohesion is the lifeblood of effective small groups in Christian teen ministries. It fosters a sense of...

Guiding Christian Fathers on Addressing Pornography Addiction within Families

Dr. Floyd Godfrey   In today's digital age, Christian fathers face the challenging task of discussing sensitive topics like pornography with their sons. The prevalence of internet...
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