Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Tackling Loneliness and Depression in College-Aged Men
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Loneliness and depression among young men in college have become increasingly prevalent, exacerbated by academic pressure, social expectations, and the challenges of...How Pornography Addiction Changes Men's Perceptions of Women
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The Objectification of Women Through Pornography
Pornography addiction significantly alters how men perceive women, leading to the objectification of women rather than...How Pornography Wrecks Your View of Sex
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Pornography's False Depiction of Sex
Pornography has become a dominant force in shaping sexual perceptions, yet its portrayal of sex is profoundly misleading. As Tim...Preoccupation and Sexual Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The Prevalence of Sexual Addiction and the Role of Preoccupation
Sexual addiction is a growing concern in the digital age, affecting individuals and relationships across...Breaking the Silence: Anxiety Struggles Among Men
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Anxiety is often seen as a struggle that primarily affects women, but millions of men also suffer from it—often in silence. Cultural expectations, societal pressures,...Underneath the Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The Awakening That Comes with Sobriety
Men struggling with pornography addiction often believe their primary issue is simply excessive sexual behavior. However, once they...How Rumination Feeds Despair and Can Lead to Suicidality
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Rumination is a mental process that can trap individuals in cycles of negative thought, increasing their risk of emotional distress and suicidal ideation. While reflection...Steps to Permanently Overcome Porn Addiction
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Overcoming pornography addiction is a challenging but achievable goal. Many individuals who struggle with compulsive sexual behaviors find that quitting on their own is...LDS Men Overcoming Sexual Confusion and Pornography Addiction
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
I have had the privilege of working with many Latter-day Saint (LDS) men who seek to live a life in harmony with gospel teachings. Many of these men struggle with sexual...Understanding Withdrawal in Porn Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Pornography addiction is a widespread issue that affects individuals on both psychological and emotional levels. Withdrawal from pornography use can be an intense and...Effective Communication Strategies: Talking to Your Son About Pornography
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Understanding the Challenge
Many mothers find it difficult to talk to their sons about pornography, yet open communication is crucial in shaping a child's...The Dangers of Sextortion: How Young Lives Are Being Destroyed
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The Growing Threat of Sextortion
Sextortion is a deeply troubling and growing threat, particularly for teens and young adults. With the rise of digital communication and...Recognizing the Signs of Betrayal Trauma: What Every Wife Should Know
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Discovering betrayal in marriage is one of the most painful experiences a wife can endure. Whether through infidelity, hidden addictions, or ongoing deception, betrayal...Responding to the Discovery of Sexual Abuse
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Initial Emotional Response
When a child discloses sexual abuse, it is natural for caregivers to experience a range of emotions, including shock, anger, fear, and sadness....Guidance for Mothers About Addressing Your Sonâs Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Recognizing the Need for Boundaries and Support
Many mothers struggle when they realize their son may be dealing with a pornography addiction. The internet has made...Implementing Boundaries: Setting Up Parental Controls to Protect Your Child
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Understanding the Need for Boundaries
With the increasing accessibility of digital content, protecting children from pornography exposure has become a major concern for...Recognizing the Signs: Is My Son Struggling with Pornography Addiction?
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Understanding the Struggle
Pornography addiction is a growing concern, affecting individuals across all age groups, including young men and adolescent boys. As a mother,...Healing After Betrayal: Steps to Rebuild Trust and Self-Worth
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The Devastation of Betrayal
Infidelity shatters more than just a marriage—it dismantles a woman’s sense of security, trust, and self-worth. For over two...Understanding Betrayal Trauma: A Guide for Wives Navigating Infidelity
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The Reality of Betrayal Trauma
For over two decades, I have worked with women who have experienced deep emotional wounds due to infidelity. Betrayal trauma is not just...Four Types of Child Abuse
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Child abuse is a pervasive issue affecting millions of children worldwide. While awareness has grown, many people still struggle to identify the signs and understand the...The Destructive Cycle of Secrecy, Shame, and Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The Hidden Power of Toxic Shame
Shame is one of the most powerful forces driving compulsive pornography use. Patrick Carnes (2015) states, “To have secrets is to have...The Myth of the Quick Fix in Pornography Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The Trap of Seeking Immediate Results
Many men struggling with pornography addiction desire an immediate solution, hoping to overcome their compulsive behaviors with...The Role of Healthy Self-Esteem in Pornography Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Understanding the Link Between Self-Esteem and Recovery
Recovering from pornography addiction requires more than just abstinence; it involves rebuilding a healthy...Overcoming Self-Doubt in Pornography Addiction Recovery
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
One of the most challenging aspects of pornography addiction is the persistent self-doubt that can plague an individual throughout their struggle. Feelings of inadequacy,...Balancing Work, Faith, and Fatherhood: Practical Tips for Christian Dads
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Being a Christian dad often feels like walking a tightrope—balancing work responsibilities, faith commitments, and the demands of fatherhood can be overwhelming. Yet,...The Crucial Role of Mothers in Raising Healthy Sons
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The influence of mothers in the development of their sons is profound and multifaceted. From early childhood through adolescence, a mother's guidance significantly shapes...Leading Your Family in Faith: A Guide for Christian Fathers
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Raising a family in today’s world comes with challenges, but for Christian fathers, the call to lead your family in faith is both a privilege and a responsibility. As...Recognizing the Signs: When to Seek Help for Pornography Addiction
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Mothers play an indispensable role in the lives of their sons, especially during the formative years of adolescence. It is in this crucial stage that young boys transition...How to Recognize and Overcome Burnout in a Fast-Paced World
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
In a world that constantly demands more of our time and energy, burnout has become a silent epidemic. Long hours, constant connectivity, and the pressure to excel often leave...The Impact of Childhood Trauma on Adult Relationships
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Childhood experiences shape the foundation of who we are, influencing our emotional, mental, and social development. When a child endures trauma—whether through abuse,...Understanding Anxiety: Breaking the Cycle of Overthinking and Fear
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Anxiety is one of the most common mental health challenges, affecting millions of people worldwide. It manifests in various ways, from excessive worry and restlessness to...Preparation for Full Disclosure in Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Men struggling with sexual addiction often face significant challenges in managing their emotions, which complicates the recovery process. As Corley and Schneider (2012)...The Benefits of Full Disclosure for Partners in the Context of Intimate Betrayal
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Full disclosure in intimate betrayal situations offers partners of those who struggle with sexual addiction a transformative opportunity to confront the truth in a safe...Teaching Young Men to Support One Another in Difficult Times
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Our culture has long emphasized the notion of individual toughness for men, often discouraging open vulnerability and emotional support. Phrases like “man up”...Using the "Fast-Forward" Tool in Pornography Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Understanding the Fast-Forward Tool
Pornography addiction can often trap individuals in a cycle of impulsivity, where short-term gratification overshadows the long-term...The Freedom of Surrender: Admitting Pornography Addiction and Trusting God
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
For many people, admitting a struggle with pornography addiction is one of the most difficult steps they will ever take. It’s a moment filled with conflicting...Betrayal and the Pain of Relational Trauma
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Betrayal in a committed relationship often results in deep emotional trauma, leaving the injured spouse grappling with profound feelings of pain and confusion. In my...The Healing Power of a âCelibacy Periodâ in Overcoming Sexual Addiction
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Using a celibacy period as a tool to reset oneself apart from sexual addiction has proven to be a transformative practice for many seeking recovery. This intentional choice to...Understanding Invasive Abuse and Its Role in Sexual Addiction Tendencies
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Invasive abuse, in its various forms, can deeply affect children, leaving emotional and psychological scars that may predispose them to sexual addiction tendencies later in...Learning to Be an Amazing Father for Your Son
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
A father’s influence on his son shapes the way he sees himself, interacts with the world, and defines success. Research highlights that sons who share a strong...Learning Internal Boundaries in Sex Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sex addiction recovery is a multifaceted journey requiring significant self-awareness and behavioral transformation. A critical aspect of this process is learning and...Rediscovering Healthy Sexuality in Recovery from Sexual Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
For individuals recovering from sexual addiction, one of the most challenging aspects of healing is learning what healthy sexuality looks like. Many have struggled to...Inconsistent Boundaries in Childhood Shape Adult Relationships
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Childhood experiences play a pivotal role in shaping a person’s understanding of boundaries and relationships. Inconsistent parental boundaries—oscillating...The Critical Role of Identifying Triggers in Pornography Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
In the struggle to overcome pornography addiction, identifying triggers is a cornerstone of lasting recovery. Many men fail to maintain sobriety because they do not fully...When Sex Addicts Hit Bottom: Surrendering to God
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Reaching the lowest point of sexual addiction is often the beginning of profound transformation. Many individuals suffering from sex addiction describe this as "hitting...The Impact of Rigid Boundaries on Children and Their Future Sexuality
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Parental boundaries are essential for a child’s development, offering structure, safety, and guidance. However, when these boundaries become excessively rigid, they can...Hope for Recovery from Pornography and Sexual Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Recognizing the System of Addiction
Pornography addiction is a pervasive challenge for many adult men, deeply rooted in complex psychological and emotional systems....Despair and Unmanageability in Sexual Addiction
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Sexual addiction not only impacts the spiritual health of individuals but also creates an unmanageable and chaotic existence. As Carnes, Delmonico, and Griffin (2001)...Raising Boys and Unlocking Their Unique Ways of Connection
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Boys navigate the world with distinct ways of expressing emotions and forming relationships, often challenging societal stereotypes. Understanding these nuances can...Powerlessness and God as Key in Overcoming Sexual Addiction
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Sexual addiction is a pervasive issue that deeply impacts individuals and their relationships. It is characterized by a loss of control over sexual behaviors and an inability to...