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The Trancelike State of Preoccupation in Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Preoccupation is a critical phase in the sexual addiction cycle that reflects the psychological grip of this behavior on individuals. In this phase, individuals experience a...

The Importance of Fathers in Raising Sons with Integrity and Strength

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The challenge of raising sons to be men of responsibility and integrity is profound. In a culture where fatherhood can be undervalued, Christian fathers are called to embrace...

Raising Boys and Unlocking Their Unique Ways of Connection

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Boys navigate the world with distinct ways of expressing emotions and forming relationships, often challenging societal stereotypes. Understanding these nuances can...

Powerlessness and God as Key in Overcoming Sexual Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Sexual addiction is a pervasive issue that deeply impacts individuals and their relationships. It is characterized by a loss of control over sexual behaviors and an inability to...

When Sex Addicts Hit Bottom: Surrendering to God

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Reaching the lowest point of sexual addiction is often the beginning of profound transformation. Many individuals suffering from sex addiction describe this as "hitting...

Recovery from Sexual Addiction: Addressing Intimacy Woundedness

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is a pervasive issue that affects individuals across various age groups, including men and youth. As a clinical sexologist, I have worked extensively with...

Shame as a Poor Motivator for Addressing Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Shame often drives individuals struggling with pornography addiction to seek change. However, I have witnessed firsthand how shame—whether internalized or externally...

Is Shame the Primary Motivator in Pornography Addiction Recovery?

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Shame often drives individuals struggling with pornography addiction to seek change. However, I have witnessed firsthand how shame—whether internalized or externally...

Understanding Narcissism: Insights and Interventions

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Narcissism, a complex and often misunderstood personality trait, can manifest as an inflated sense of self-importance, an unyielding need for admiration, and a lack of empathy....

God's Commandments Are Not Arbitrary Rules

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In our daily lives, it’s easy to question the purpose behind God’s commandments. Some may perceive them as restrictions or arbitrary rules. However, God’s...

The Hidden Harms of Sexually Addicted Behavior

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is often associated with private struggles and personal pain, but its effects extend far beyond the individual. Hidden harms caused by sexually addicted...

How Narcissists Manage Internal Envy

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The dynamics of narcissistic personality traits often reveal a troubling interplay of superiority, shame, and envy. For narcissists, envy is not merely a fleeting feeling but a...

Transformation as the Core Goal of Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sobriety is often the initial focus for individuals seeking recovery from sexual addiction, but true freedom lies in transformation—a fundamental shift in one’s...

Inconsistent Boundaries in Childhood Shape Adult Relationships

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Childhood experiences play a pivotal role in shaping a person’s understanding of boundaries and relationships. Inconsistent parental boundaries—oscillating...

Hope for Recovery from Pornography and Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Recognizing the System of Addiction Pornography addiction is a pervasive challenge for many adult men, deeply rooted in complex psychological and emotional systems....

Fathers as Mentors and Models for Raising Healthy Sons

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The role of a father as a mentor and model for his son is pivotal in shaping his identity and character. Fathers are uniquely positioned to guide their sons through...

Despair and Unmanageability in Sexual Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Sexual addiction not only impacts the spiritual health of individuals but also creates an unmanageable and chaotic existence. As Carnes, Delmonico, and Griffin (2001)...

Understanding Withdrawal in Porn Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Pornography addiction is a widespread issue that affects individuals on both psychological and emotional levels. Withdrawal from pornography use can be an intense and...

Understanding Betrayal Trauma: A Guide for Wives Navigating Infidelity

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Reality of Betrayal Trauma For over two decades, I have worked with women who have experienced deep emotional wounds due to infidelity. Betrayal trauma is not just...

Underneath the Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Awakening That Comes with Sobriety Men struggling with pornography addiction often believe their primary issue is simply excessive sexual behavior. However, once they...

The Role of Healthy Self-Esteem in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Link Between Self-Esteem and Recovery Recovering from pornography addiction requires more than just abstinence; it involves rebuilding a healthy...

The Myth of the Quick Fix in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Trap of Seeking Immediate Results Many men struggling with pornography addiction desire an immediate solution, hoping to overcome their compulsive behaviors with...

Learning Internal Boundaries in Sex Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sex addiction recovery is a multifaceted journey requiring significant self-awareness and behavioral transformation. A critical aspect of this process is learning and...

Learning to Be an Amazing Father for Your Son

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey   A father’s influence on his son shapes the way he sees himself, interacts with the world, and defines success. Research highlights that sons who share a strong...

Preparation for Full Disclosure in Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Men struggling with sexual addiction often face significant challenges in managing their emotions, which complicates the recovery process. As Corley and Schneider (2012)...

Understanding Invasive Abuse and Its Role in Sexual Addiction Tendencies

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Invasive abuse, in its various forms, can deeply affect children, leaving emotional and psychological scars that may predispose them to sexual addiction tendencies later in...

Understanding Anxiety: Breaking the Cycle of Overthinking and Fear

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Anxiety is one of the most common mental health challenges, affecting millions of people worldwide. It manifests in various ways, from excessive worry and restlessness to...

The Impact of Rigid Boundaries on Children and Their Future Sexuality

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Parental boundaries are essential for a child’s development, offering structure, safety, and guidance. However, when these boundaries become excessively rigid, they can...

The Healing Power of a 'Celibacy Period' in Overcoming Sexual Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Using a celibacy period as a tool to reset oneself apart from sexual addiction has proven to be a transformative practice for many seeking recovery. This intentional choice to...

The Freedom of Surrender: Admitting Pornography Addiction and Trusting God

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey For many people, admitting a struggle with pornography addiction is one of the most difficult steps they will ever take. It’s a moment filled with conflicting...

The Critical Role of Identifying Triggers in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In the struggle to overcome pornography addiction, identifying triggers is a cornerstone of lasting recovery. Many men fail to maintain sobriety because they do not fully...

The Benefits of Full Disclosure for Partners in the Context of Intimate Betrayal

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Full disclosure in intimate betrayal situations offers partners of those who struggle with sexual addiction a transformative opportunity to confront the truth in a safe...

Teaching Young Men to Support One Another in Difficult Times

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Our culture has long emphasized the notion of individual toughness for men, often discouraging open vulnerability and emotional support. Phrases like “man up”...

Rediscovering Healthy Sexuality in Recovery from Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD For individuals recovering from sexual addiction, one of the most challenging aspects of healing is learning what healthy sexuality looks like. Many have struggled to...

LDS Men Overcoming Sexual Confusion and Pornography Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey I have had the privilege of working with many Latter-day Saint (LDS) men who seek to live a life in harmony with gospel teachings. Many of these men struggle with sexual...

Implementing Boundaries: Setting Up Parental Controls to Protect Your Child

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Need for Boundaries With the increasing accessibility of digital content, protecting children from pornography exposure has become a major concern for...

How to Recognize and Overcome Burnout in a Fast-Paced World

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In a world that constantly demands more of our time and energy, burnout has become a silent epidemic. Long hours, constant connectivity, and the pressure to excel often leave...

How Pornography Wrecks Your View of Sex

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Pornography's False Depiction of Sex Pornography has become a dominant force in shaping sexual perceptions, yet its portrayal of sex is profoundly misleading. As Tim...

How Pornography Addiction Changes Men's Perceptions of Women

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Objectification of Women Through Pornography Pornography addiction significantly alters how men perceive women, leading to the objectification of women rather than...

Healing After Betrayal: Steps to Rebuild Trust and Self-Worth

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Devastation of Betrayal Infidelity shatters more than just a marriage—it dismantles a woman’s sense of security, trust, and self-worth. For over two...

Guidance for Mothers About Addressing Your Son's Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Recognizing the Need for Boundaries and Support Many mothers struggle when they realize their son may be dealing with a pornography addiction. The internet has made...

Four Types of Child Abuse

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Child abuse is a pervasive issue affecting millions of children worldwide. While awareness has grown, many people still struggle to identify the signs and understand the...

Effective Communication Strategies: Talking to Your Son About Pornography

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Challenge Many mothers find it difficult to talk to their sons about pornography, yet open communication is crucial in shaping a child's...

How Rumination Feeds Despair and Can Lead to Suicidality

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Rumination is a mental process that can trap individuals in cycles of negative thought, increasing their risk of emotional distress and suicidal ideation. While reflection...

Leading Your Family in Faith: A Guide for Christian Fathers

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Raising a family in today’s world comes with challenges, but for Christian fathers, the call to lead your family in faith is both a privilege and a responsibility. As...

Overcoming Self-Doubt in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey One of the most challenging aspects of pornography addiction is the persistent self-doubt that can plague an individual throughout their struggle. Feelings of inadequacy,...

The Impact of Childhood Trauma on Adult Relationships

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Childhood experiences shape the foundation of who we are, influencing our emotional, mental, and social development. When a child endures trauma—whether through abuse,...

The Destructive Cycle of Secrecy, Shame, and Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Hidden Power of Toxic Shame Shame is one of the most powerful forces driving compulsive pornography use. Patrick Carnes (2015) states, “To have secrets is to have...

The Dangers of Sextortion: How Young Lives Are Being Destroyed

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Growing Threat of Sextortion Sextortion is a deeply troubling and growing threat, particularly for teens and young adults. With the rise of digital communication and...

The Crucial Role of Mothers in Raising Healthy Sons

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey The influence of mothers in the development of their sons is profound and multifaceted. From early childhood through adolescence, a mother's guidance significantly shapes...
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