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The Importance of Self-Care in Pornography Addiction Recovery

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Understanding Self-Care in Recovery Self-care is a foundational element of recovery from pornography addiction. As Patrick Carnes explains, “Neglect is a common problem...

The Loss of Emotional Connection in Marriages Affected by Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Emotional Disconnect Pornography addiction profoundly disrupts emotional intimacy within marriage. Over the past 24 years, I have observed a consistent...

Finding Freedom Through Accountability: The Key to Overcoming Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Importance of Accountability Overcoming pornography addiction is a deeply personal but not solitary journey. Accountability plays a pivotal role in recovery, acting as...

Adolescent Mental Health During the Holidays

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The holiday season, often depicted as a time of joy and togetherness, can present unique challenges for adolescents, particularly those grappling with mental health issues. The...

Admitting When You Need Counseling for Pornography Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey God has lovingly provided guidance about our sexuality, designed to help us live spiritually and emotionally healthy lives. Yet, in a world where temptations abound, struggling...

A Teenager's Addiction to Pornography and Early Childhood Exposure

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The Loss of Innocence Exposure to pornography at a young age is a perilous issue affecting countless children worldwide. For Mark Houck, whose story is shared in Matt...

Wives' Trauma After Discovering a Husband's Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The discovery of a husband's pornography addiction is often deeply traumatic for wives, disrupting the trust and emotional safety fundamental to a marital bond. This...

Understanding Betrayal Trauma in the Wake of Infidelity

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The revelation of a spouse’s infidelity is a devastating experience that often leads to profound emotional and psychological distress, known as betrayal trauma. This...

The Transformative Power of the First Step to Overcome Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The Significance of the First Step The First Step in recovery programs is one of the most critical moments for individuals seeking freedom from addiction. It requires...

The Role of Self-Awareness in Sexual Addiction Recovery

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Self-Awareness Through Reflection Developing self-awareness is vital for recovery from sexual addiction, as it fosters a deeper understanding of one’s thoughts,...

The Role of Accountability in Overcoming Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Pornography addiction is a struggle that impacts countless men, often in silence. Over the years, in my clinical practice, I have observed how deeply secrecy and shame...

The Positive Impact of Cellphone Bans on Student Mental Health in Ohio Schools

Dr. Floyd Godfrey With the growing dependence on smartphones among young people, schools across the United States are grappling with their impact on academic performance, social interactions, and...

Intimacy Anorexia and Intimate Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Intimate betrayal leaves deep emotional scars, often rooted in intimacy anorexia and compounded by pornography addiction. This painful combination can leave individuals...

Intimacy Anorexia: A Symptom of Betrayal Trauma

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Hidden Strain of Betrayal Trauma Betrayal trauma, often stemming from infidelity or pornography addiction, manifests in profound emotional and relational struggles....

Impaired Thinking of a Sex Addiction and Getting Help for Sexual Addiction

Sexual addiction often leads to impaired thinking—a state in which rational thought is overridden by emotional and compulsive responses. Many individuals struggling with sex addiction have sat...

How Faulty Core Beliefs Anchor Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Faulty core beliefs are pivotal in understanding the development and perpetuation of sexual addiction. My clinical observations with men struggling in this area consistently...

How Childhood Abuse Contributes to Sexual Compulsivity

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Childhood abuse is a profound factor in the development of sexual compulsivity among both men and women. The psychological and physiological impact of abuse leaves imprints...

Courage in the Face of Difficulty

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The Call to Courage Life's challenges often demand more of us than we feel prepared to give. Scripture, however, reminds us to face such moments with courage. As Clinton...

Christmas and Connection While Struggling with Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The holiday season, especially Christmas, is often associated with joy, connection, and tradition. However, for individuals struggling with pornography or sexual addiction,...

Addiction Recovery and a Period of Celibacy - Help for Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In the journey of recovering from sexual addiction, a period of celibacy can serve as a powerful tool for personal healing and reclaiming a balanced, healthy relationship...

God's Commandments Are Safety Boundaries

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In a world often marred by chaos and confusion, God’s commandments stand as clear boundaries designed for our well-being. While some may mistakenly see these boundaries...

Intimate Betrayal and Intimacy Anorexia - Coping with Pain

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The pain of intimate betrayal runs deep, especially for wives facing the fallout of their husband’s struggles with intimacy anorexia and pornography addiction. Over my...

Loneliness as a Trigger for Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Loneliness is a powerful emotional state, often overlooked as a significant trigger for pornography addiction. As a clinician specializing in sexual addiction recovery for...

The Pathological Need for Admiration in Narcissists

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Narcissism, marked by an inflated sense of self-importance and a profound need for validation, often masks deep insecurities and a fragile self-esteem. The pathological need for...

The Importance Fathers Make in the Lives of Their Daughters

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Fathers play a profoundly influential role in shaping their daughters' lives. Yet, this vital role often competes with the demands of modern life, including work, hobbies,...

The End is Just the Beginning: Lessons from the Bible

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Death Brings Life In the Christian journey, the principle that the end of one season heralds the beginning of another is profoundly illustrated in the Bible. Jesus...

The Divine Role of Fathers in Their Daughters' Lives

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding a Daughter’s Heart Fathers play a unique and irreplaceable role in the lives of their daughters. This role transcends mere provision and protection,...

The Biblical Role of Parents to Teach Their Sons About Sexuality and Pornography

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Talking to your sons about sexuality and pornography addiction can feel daunting for many parents. Unfortunately, many adolescents stumble into the world of pornography...

Rituals and the Sexual Addiction Cycle

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is a pervasive and challenging issue that impacts individuals and relationships. Understanding the dynamics of sexual addiction is critical for effective...

Pornhub's Response to Expanding Age-Verification Laws

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In recent years, legislative efforts across the United States have intensified to restrict minors’ access to online pornography. As of December 2024, Pornhub, one of the...

Navigating Mental Health Struggles During the Holiday Season

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The holiday season is a time of joy and celebration, but for many, it can also be a period of profound emotional struggle. While the world around us seems filled with...

Mental Health in 2025: Hope for the Future

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The year 2025 marks a pivotal moment in addressing global mental health challenges. With one in five people experiencing mental health conditions worldwide, the landscape of...

Shame as a Poor Motivator for Addressing Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Shame often drives individuals struggling with pornography addiction to seek change. However, I have witnessed firsthand how shame—whether internalized or externally...

The Trancelike State of Preoccupation in Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Preoccupation is a critical phase in the sexual addiction cycle that reflects the psychological grip of this behavior on individuals. In this phase, individuals experience a...

The Importance of Fathers in Raising Sons with Integrity and Strength

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The challenge of raising sons to be men of responsibility and integrity is profound. In a culture where fatherhood can be undervalued, Christian fathers are called to embrace...

Raising Boys and Unlocking Their Unique Ways of Connection

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Boys navigate the world with distinct ways of expressing emotions and forming relationships, often challenging societal stereotypes. Understanding these nuances can...

Powerlessness and God as Key in Overcoming Sexual Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Sexual addiction is a pervasive issue that deeply impacts individuals and their relationships. It is characterized by a loss of control over sexual behaviors and an inability to...

When Sex Addicts Hit Bottom: Surrendering to God

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Reaching the lowest point of sexual addiction is often the beginning of profound transformation. Many individuals suffering from sex addiction describe this as "hitting...

Using the "Fast-Forward" Tool in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Fast-Forward Tool Pornography addiction can often trap individuals in a cycle of impulsivity, where short-term gratification overshadows the long-term...

Is Shame the Primary Motivator in Pornography Addiction Recovery?

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Shame often drives individuals struggling with pornography addiction to seek change. However, I have witnessed firsthand how shame—whether internalized or externally...

Recovery from Sexual Addiction: Addressing Intimacy Woundedness

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is a pervasive issue that affects individuals across various age groups, including men and youth. As a clinical sexologist, I have worked extensively with...

Understanding Narcissism: Insights and Interventions

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Narcissism, a complex and often misunderstood personality trait, can manifest as an inflated sense of self-importance, an unyielding need for admiration, and a lack of empathy....

God's Commandments Are Not Arbitrary Rules

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In our daily lives, it’s easy to question the purpose behind God’s commandments. Some may perceive them as restrictions or arbitrary rules. However, God’s...

The Hidden Harms of Sexually Addicted Behavior

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is often associated with private struggles and personal pain, but its effects extend far beyond the individual. Hidden harms caused by sexually addicted...

How Narcissists Manage Internal Envy

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The dynamics of narcissistic personality traits often reveal a troubling interplay of superiority, shame, and envy. For narcissists, envy is not merely a fleeting feeling but a...

Transformation as the Core Goal of Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sobriety is often the initial focus for individuals seeking recovery from sexual addiction, but true freedom lies in transformation—a fundamental shift in one’s...

Inconsistent Boundaries in Childhood Shape Adult Relationships

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Childhood experiences play a pivotal role in shaping a person’s understanding of boundaries and relationships. Inconsistent parental boundaries—oscillating...

Hope for Recovery from Pornography and Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Recognizing the System of Addiction Pornography addiction is a pervasive challenge for many adult men, deeply rooted in complex psychological and emotional systems....

Fathers as Mentors and Models for Raising Healthy Sons

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The role of a father as a mentor and model for his son is pivotal in shaping his identity and character. Fathers are uniquely positioned to guide their sons through...

Despair and Unmanageability in Sexual Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Sexual addiction not only impacts the spiritual health of individuals but also creates an unmanageable and chaotic existence. As Carnes, Delmonico, and Griffin (2001)...
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