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Intimate Betrayal and Intimacy Anorexia – Coping with Pain

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The pain of intimate betrayal runs deep, especially for wives facing the fallout of their husband’s struggles with intimacy anorexia and pornography addiction. Over my...

Loneliness as a Trigger for Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Loneliness is a powerful emotional state, often overlooked as a significant trigger for pornography addiction. As a clinician specializing in sexual addiction recovery for...

The Pathological Need for Admiration in Narcissists

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Narcissism, marked by an inflated sense of self-importance and a profound need for validation, often masks deep insecurities and a fragile self-esteem. The pathological need for...

The Importance Fathers Make in the Lives of Their Daughters

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Fathers play a profoundly influential role in shaping their daughters' lives. Yet, this vital role often competes with the demands of modern life, including work, hobbies,...

The End is Just the Beginning: Lessons from the Bible

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Death Brings Life In the Christian journey, the principle that the end of one season heralds the beginning of another is profoundly illustrated in the Bible. Jesus...

The Divine Role of Fathers in Their Daughters' Lives

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding a Daughter’s Heart Fathers play a unique and irreplaceable role in the lives of their daughters. This role transcends mere provision and protection,...

The Biblical Role of Parents to Teach Their Sons About Sexuality and Pornography

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Talking to your sons about sexuality and pornography addiction can feel daunting for many parents. Unfortunately, many adolescents stumble into the world of pornography...

Rituals and the Sexual Addiction Cycle

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is a pervasive and challenging issue that impacts individuals and relationships. Understanding the dynamics of sexual addiction is critical for effective...

Pornhub's Response to Expanding Age-Verification Laws

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In recent years, legislative efforts across the United States have intensified to restrict minors’ access to online pornography. As of December 2024, Pornhub, one of the...

Navigating Mental Health Struggles During the Holiday Season

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The holiday season is a time of joy and celebration, but for many, it can also be a period of profound emotional struggle. While the world around us seems filled with...

Mental Health in 2025: Hope for the Future

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The year 2025 marks a pivotal moment in addressing global mental health challenges. With one in five people experiencing mental health conditions worldwide, the landscape of...

The Trancelike State of Preoccupation in Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Preoccupation is a critical phase in the sexual addiction cycle that reflects the psychological grip of this behavior on individuals. In this phase, individuals experience a...

The Importance of Fathers in Raising Sons with Integrity and Strength

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The challenge of raising sons to be men of responsibility and integrity is profound. In a culture where fatherhood can be undervalued, Christian fathers are called to embrace...

Raising Boys and Unlocking Their Unique Ways of Connection

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Boys navigate the world with distinct ways of expressing emotions and forming relationships, often challenging societal stereotypes. Understanding these nuances can...

Powerlessness and God as Key in Overcoming Sexual Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Sexual addiction is a pervasive issue that deeply impacts individuals and their relationships. It is characterized by a loss of control over sexual behaviors and an inability to...

When Sex Addicts Hit Bottom: Surrendering to God

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Reaching the lowest point of sexual addiction is often the beginning of profound transformation. Many individuals suffering from sex addiction describe this as "hitting...

Using the "Fast-Forward" Tool in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Fast-Forward Tool Pornography addiction can often trap individuals in a cycle of impulsivity, where short-term gratification overshadows the long-term...

Is Shame the Primary Motivator in Pornography Addiction Recovery?

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Shame often drives individuals struggling with pornography addiction to seek change. However, I have witnessed firsthand how shame—whether internalized or externally...

The Hidden Harms of Sexually Addicted Behavior

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is often associated with private struggles and personal pain, but its effects extend far beyond the individual. Hidden harms caused by sexually addicted...

Recovery from Sexual Addiction: Addressing Intimacy Woundedness

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is a pervasive issue that affects individuals across various age groups, including men and youth. As a clinical sexologist, I have worked extensively with...

Shame as a Poor Motivator for Addressing Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Shame often drives individuals struggling with pornography addiction to seek change. However, I have witnessed firsthand how shame—whether internalized or externally...

Transformation as the Core Goal of Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sobriety is often the initial focus for individuals seeking recovery from sexual addiction, but true freedom lies in transformation—a fundamental shift in one’s...

How Narcissists Manage Internal Envy

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The dynamics of narcissistic personality traits often reveal a troubling interplay of superiority, shame, and envy. For narcissists, envy is not merely a fleeting feeling but a...

God’s Commandments Are Not Arbitrary Rules

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In our daily lives, it’s easy to question the purpose behind God’s commandments. Some may perceive them as restrictions or arbitrary rules. However, God’s...

Understanding Narcissism: Insights and Interventions

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Narcissism, a complex and often misunderstood personality trait, can manifest as an inflated sense of self-importance, an unyielding need for admiration, and a lack of empathy....

Fathers as Mentors and Models for Raising Healthy Sons

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The role of a father as a mentor and model for his son is pivotal in shaping his identity and character. Fathers are uniquely positioned to guide their sons through...

Hope for Recovery from Pornography and Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Recognizing the System of Addiction Pornography addiction is a pervasive challenge for many adult men, deeply rooted in complex psychological and emotional systems....

Inconsistent Boundaries in Childhood Shape Adult Relationships

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Childhood experiences play a pivotal role in shaping a person’s understanding of boundaries and relationships. Inconsistent parental boundaries—oscillating...

Despair and Unmanageability in Sexual Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Sexual addiction not only impacts the spiritual health of individuals but also creates an unmanageable and chaotic existence. As Carnes, Delmonico, and Griffin (2001)...

Understanding Withdrawal in Porn Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Pornography addiction is a widespread issue that affects individuals on both psychological and emotional levels. Withdrawal from pornography use can be an intense and...

Understanding Betrayal Trauma: A Guide for Wives Navigating Infidelity

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Reality of Betrayal Trauma For over two decades, I have worked with women who have experienced deep emotional wounds due to infidelity. Betrayal trauma is not just...

Underneath the Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Awakening That Comes with Sobriety Men struggling with pornography addiction often believe their primary issue is simply excessive sexual behavior. However, once they...

The Role of Healthy Self-Esteem in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Link Between Self-Esteem and Recovery Recovering from pornography addiction requires more than just abstinence; it involves rebuilding a healthy...

The Myth of the Quick Fix in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The Trap of Seeking Immediate Results Many men struggling with pornography addiction desire an immediate solution, hoping to overcome their compulsive behaviors with...

Learning Internal Boundaries in Sex Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sex addiction recovery is a multifaceted journey requiring significant self-awareness and behavioral transformation. A critical aspect of this process is learning and...

Learning to Be an Amazing Father for Your Son

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey   A father’s influence on his son shapes the way he sees himself, interacts with the world, and defines success. Research highlights that sons who share a strong...

Preparation for Full Disclosure in Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Men struggling with sexual addiction often face significant challenges in managing their emotions, which complicates the recovery process. As Corley and Schneider (2012)...

The Healing Power of a ‘Celibacy Period’ in Overcoming Sexual Addiction

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Using a celibacy period as a tool to reset oneself apart from sexual addiction has proven to be a transformative practice for many seeking recovery. This intentional choice to...

Understanding Invasive Abuse and Its Role in Sexual Addiction Tendencies

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Invasive abuse, in its various forms, can deeply affect children, leaving emotional and psychological scars that may predispose them to sexual addiction tendencies later in...

Understanding Anxiety: Breaking the Cycle of Overthinking and Fear

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Anxiety is one of the most common mental health challenges, affecting millions of people worldwide. It manifests in various ways, from excessive worry and restlessness to...

The Impact of Rigid Boundaries on Children and Their Future Sexuality

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Parental boundaries are essential for a child’s development, offering structure, safety, and guidance. However, when these boundaries become excessively rigid, they can...

The Freedom of Surrender: Admitting Pornography Addiction and Trusting God

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey For many people, admitting a struggle with pornography addiction is one of the most difficult steps they will ever take. It’s a moment filled with conflicting...

The Critical Role of Identifying Triggers in Pornography Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In the struggle to overcome pornography addiction, identifying triggers is a cornerstone of lasting recovery. Many men fail to maintain sobriety because they do not fully...

The Benefits of Full Disclosure for Partners in the Context of Intimate Betrayal

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Full disclosure in intimate betrayal situations offers partners of those who struggle with sexual addiction a transformative opportunity to confront the truth in a safe...

Teaching Young Men to Support One Another in Difficult Times

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Our culture has long emphasized the notion of individual toughness for men, often discouraging open vulnerability and emotional support. Phrases like “man up”...

Rediscovering Healthy Sexuality in Recovery from Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD For individuals recovering from sexual addiction, one of the most challenging aspects of healing is learning what healthy sexuality looks like. Many have struggled to...

Implementing Boundaries: Setting Up Parental Controls to Protect Your Child

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Understanding the Need for Boundaries With the increasing accessibility of digital content, protecting children from pornography exposure has become a major concern for...

How to Recognize and Overcome Burnout in a Fast-Paced World

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In a world that constantly demands more of our time and energy, burnout has become a silent epidemic. Long hours, constant connectivity, and the pressure to excel often leave...

How Rumination Feeds Despair and Can Lead to Suicidality

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Rumination is a mental process that can trap individuals in cycles of negative thought, increasing their risk of emotional distress and suicidal ideation. While reflection...

How Pornography Wrecks Your View of Sex

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Pornography's False Depiction of Sex Pornography has become a dominant force in shaping sexual perceptions, yet its portrayal of sex is profoundly misleading. As Tim...
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