Floyd Godfrey, PhD

Articles

Understanding the Escalation of Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Pornography addiction can be an increasingly complex challenge for men, with a tendency to escalate over time. Unlike many habits, pornography addiction often follows a...

Protecting Our Children: Addressing Bullying in Schools and Online

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Bullying remains a pervasive issue in today's society, affecting countless children both in schools and online. Recent data from the National Center for Education...

The Myth of Sex Addiction as “Just Fun”

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In modern culture, the concept of sex addiction is frequently trivialized, often dismissed as just an indulgence or even joked about, especially among men. This casual...

How to Break the Cycle of Pornography and Sex Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The rise of pornography addiction over the past two decades has brought new challenges and demands to the field of addiction recovery. With over 24 years of experience...

Sex Addiction as Affect Dysregulation

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In my 23 years of clinical experience working with men struggling with sexual addiction, I have seen how deeply this issue affects not only their behavior but also their...

Standing Strong in the Face of Senseless Suffering

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In the journey of faith, there may come times when suffering feels overwhelming, leaving us with questions that seemingly have no answers. From illnesses to unexpected...

Narcissism and the Pathological Need for Admiration

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is more than just a heightened sense of self-importance; it is a deeply rooted need for constant admiration and approval. Narcissistic...

The Worst Things Men and Teens Do When Trying to Overcome Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Over the past 24 years, I have worked closely with men and teenage clients who grapple with addiction to pornography. Watching their struggles has deepened my understanding...

Sexual Addiction Recovery: Understanding the Cycles of Despair and Shame

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In the journey to address sexual addiction, recognizing the complex and cyclical nature of the addiction process is crucial. Patrick Carnes, a leading authority in the...

You Are Not Broken: Understanding and Overcoming Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD For many men who struggle with sexual addiction, feelings of shame and self-loathing are overwhelming. It's common to believe that something is inherently wrong with...

The Harmful Effects of Pornography Exposure

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Pornography consumption has become a widespread issue in modern society, influencing both individual behavior and cultural perceptions of human sexuality. While it is often...

The Cultural Normalization of Pornography and Its Impact on Adolescents and Adults

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In her 2005 testimony before the U.S. Senate, Dr. Jill Manning raised critical concerns about the rising normalization of pornography in American culture. Manning’s...

Dr. Jill Manning's Testimony on the Dangers of Pornography Consumption

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In her 2005 testimony to the U.S. Senate, Dr. Jill Manning presented compelling research highlighting the dangers of pornography consumption. Manning’s findings, drawn...

The Harmful Impact of Pornography on Marriage and Relationships

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In my years working with couples as a Christian counselor, I’ve often witnessed the devastating effects that pornography has on marriages and intimate relationships....

Trusting God Through Times of Trial

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey As Christians, we often face seasons of trials and uncertainty. These moments can challenge our faith and tempt us to take control of situations ourselves. Yet, trusting...

The Silent Struggles of Male Adolescents: Addressing Mental Health Needs

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Male adolescent mental health has increasingly become a hot topic of discussion, and for good reason. In recent years, we’ve seen a concerning rise in mental health issues...

The Danger of Pornography on the Developing Brains of Children and Adolescents

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In today’s digital world, pornography has become easily accessible, even to children and adolescents. While parents may hope to shield their young ones from...

Shame and Isolation in Sexual Addiction: A Vicious Cycle

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In my years of working with men struggling with sexual addiction and pornography use, one recurring theme stands out: the overwhelming shame that fuels a cycle of isolation....

Help for Porn Addiction with Adolescent Boys

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Pornography addiction is a growing concern, particularly among adolescent males. In my clinical work, I have seen firsthand the profound effects that exposure to pornography...

Walking by Faith and Speaking the Truth

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In a world that often prizes comfort and compromise, Christians are called to something different—walking by faith and speaking the truth with boldness. This theme was...

Men Healing from Sexual Addiction and Core Emotional Desires

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD When men embark on the journey of healing from sexual addiction, they face a deep struggle not only with the addiction itself but also with underlying emotional wounds....

Early Signs of Sexual Addiction: Clinical Observations

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sex addiction is a complex and pervasive issue that many men face, often beginning with subtle signs that are easily overlooked or dismissed. As a Clinical Sexologist...

God Cares More About Our Character Than Our Comfort

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In today’s fast-paced and often challenging world, many of us long for comfort, peace, and ease in our daily lives. Yet, one of the most profound lessons we learn as...

Understanding Self-Injury in Teens and Young Adults

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Working with teenagers for over 20 years has given me firsthand insight into the struggles that many young people face today. Through my career, I have encountered numerous...

The Power of Self-Awareness

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Self-awareness is essential for spiritual growth and healthy relationships. It allows us to see ourselves clearly, recognize our shortcomings, and respond in a way that honors...

The Importance of Telling Your Story - A Christian Perspective

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Every Christian has a story to tell—a journey filled with moments of joy, struggle, redemption, and growth. Sharing that story is not just a suggestion but a calling from...

Understanding Complex PTSD

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD) is a condition that arises from prolonged or repeated trauma, typically occurring in early childhood. Unlike traditional PTSD,...

Culture's Spiritual War on the Family - Thoughts by Dr. Ben Carson

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In today’s world, the family is under relentless attack from cultural forces that seek to redefine and diminish its God-given structure. As Christians, we must remain...

Counseling Women Struggling with Intimate Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Intimate betrayal, particularly involving infidelity or compulsive sexual behaviors, can have profound emotional and psychological effects on women. Through my experience...

When It Doesn’t Feel Like Abuse: Understanding Sexual Abuse in Boys

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Sexual abuse among boys is a complex and deeply misunderstood issue. Many boys who experience abuse are unsure whether what happened to them even qualifies as abuse. This...

Ethical Standards of the AACC: Protecting Clients of Faith

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The American Association of Christian Counselors (AACC) has developed a robust ethical code designed to ensure that Christian counselors operate with integrity, especially when...

Couples in Recovery When the Husband is Sexually Addicted

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD When a husband struggles with compulsive sexual behavior or sexual addiction, it creates significant challenges for both partners in the relationship. The road to recovery...

Why Boys Who Are Sexually Abused Often Don’t Tell

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Sexual abuse is a devastating experience for any child, but when it comes to boys, the silence surrounding the issue can be especially isolating. Studies show that boys who are...

The Aftermath of Narcissistic Abuse: Understanding the Smear Campaign

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Narcissistic abuse leaves deep emotional scars, often well after the relationship has ended. One of the most insidious tactics that narcissists employ to protect their...

Understanding Internal vs. External Anxiety

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Anxiety is a common emotional experience, but it manifests in different forms. It can be triggered by external factors—events, situations, or challenges outside our...

How Young Men Can Talk to Their Parents About Struggling with Pornography

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD For many young men, the topic of pornography is sensitive and difficult to talk about, especially with parents or trusted adults. Shame, embarrassment, and fear of judgment...

Men's Emotional Barriers to Seeking Support for Porn Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In Western culture, men often struggle to express their emotions, especially when it comes to vulnerability. Many men find it difficult to open up about their feelings,...

Transgender Questions and The Cass Report

The Cass report, led by Dr. Hilary Cass, is a comprehensive independent review commissioned by NHS England to address the rising number of young people, particularly adolescents, seeking gender...

Neuropathways and Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In the field of sexual addiction counseling, understanding the underlying neurobiological processes is key to helping clients break free from compulsive behaviors. Sexual...

Surviving Pain and Difficulty in Life

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Life’s difficulties often come when we least expect them. Many of these hardships arise from the injustice of others’ actions, leaving us feeling broken or in...

Holding onto Faith During Pain and Challenge

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Life’s challenges can be overwhelming, especially when we face deep personal pain or struggle with mental health issues. During these times, it is not uncommon for...

Facilitating Dysfunctional Disclosures in Sex Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Throughout my clinical experience as a Certified Sex Addiction Specialist, I have witnessed firsthand the complex dynamics involved in disclosures of infidelity and...

The Healing Process After Intimate Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Intimate betrayal is one of the most devastating experiences a person can face. When a partner engages in infidelity or deceit, the emotional impact can be overwhelming. The...

The Role of Disclosure Sessions in Sexual Addiction Recovery and Intimate Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In my work as a sex addiction counselor, I have seen firsthand the devastating effects that intimate betrayal can have on couples. When someone in a committed relationship...

How to Respond to Your Wife When She's Having a Trauma Response Following Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD When a wife experiences betrayal, especially in the context of sexual addiction, her emotional world is often shattered. Through my clinical work with couples, I’ve...

Hiding and Secrecy in Addiction Recovery - The Power of Transparency

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In my years as a Christian counselor, I’ve seen the devastating effects that addiction can have on individuals and families. One of the most challenging aspects of...

Sleep Disturbances and Appetite Changes in Sexual Addiction Withdrawal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD As a mental health professional specializing in sexual addiction, I have encountered a variety of withdrawal symptoms that significantly impact individuals in recovery....

Surrendering to God's Will: Step One in Healing Pornography Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey As a Christian counselor, I’ve had the privilege of working with many men of faith who are struggling with the bondage of pornography addiction. These men, often...

Understanding Withdrawal from Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD As a mental health professional specializing in sexual addiction, I have had the privilege of walking with many clients through the challenging journey of recovery. One of...

Sexual Anorexia and Its Interaction with Intimate Betrayal and Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual anorexia is a lesser-known yet profound condition that I often encounter in my clinical work with couples, particularly those who are grappling with the fallout from...