Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Fathers as Mentors and Models for Raising Healthy Sons
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The role of a father as a mentor and model for his son is pivotal in shaping his identity and character. Fathers are uniquely positioned to guide their sons through...The Importance of Fathers in Raising Sons with Integrity and Strength
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The challenge of raising sons to be men of responsibility and integrity is profound. In a culture where fatherhood can be undervalued, Christian fathers are called to embrace...The Trancelike State of Preoccupation in Sexual Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Preoccupation is a critical phase in the sexual addiction cycle that reflects the psychological grip of this behavior on individuals. In this phase, individuals experience a...Transformation as the Core Goal of Sexual Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sobriety is often the initial focus for individuals seeking recovery from sexual addiction, but true freedom lies in transformation—a fundamental shift in one’s...Is Shame the Primary Motivator in Pornography Addiction Recovery?
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Shame often drives individuals struggling with pornography addiction to seek change. However, I have witnessed firsthand how shame—whether internalized or externally...Shame as a Poor Motivator for Addressing Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Shame often drives individuals struggling with pornography addiction to seek change. However, I have witnessed firsthand how shame—whether internalized or externally...Recovery from Sexual Addiction: Addressing Intimacy Woundedness
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sexual addiction is a pervasive issue that affects individuals across various age groups, including men and youth. As a clinical sexologist, I have worked extensively with...How Narcissists Manage Internal Envy
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The dynamics of narcissistic personality traits often reveal a troubling interplay of superiority, shame, and envy. For narcissists, envy is not merely a fleeting feeling but a...The Hidden Harms of Sexually Addicted Behavior
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sexual addiction is often associated with private struggles and personal pain, but its effects extend far beyond the individual. Hidden harms caused by sexually addicted...Understanding Narcissism: Insights and Interventions
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Narcissism, a complex and often misunderstood personality trait, can manifest as an inflated sense of self-importance, an unyielding need for admiration, and a lack of empathy....Godâs Commandments Are Safety Boundaries
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
In a world often marred by chaos and confusion, God’s commandments stand as clear boundaries designed for our well-being. While some may mistakenly see these boundaries...Godâs Commandments Are Not Arbitrary Rules
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
In our daily lives, it’s easy to question the purpose behind God’s commandments. Some may perceive them as restrictions or arbitrary rules. However, God’s...The Pathological Need for Admiration in Narcissists
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Narcissism, marked by an inflated sense of self-importance and a profound need for validation, often masks deep insecurities and a fragile self-esteem. The pathological need for...Courage in the Face of Difficulty
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The Call to Courage
Life's challenges often demand more of us than we feel prepared to give. Scripture, however, reminds us to face such moments with courage. As Clinton...Pornhub's Response to Expanding Age-Verification Laws
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
In recent years, legislative efforts across the United States have intensified to restrict minors’ access to online pornography. As of December 2024, Pornhub, one of the...How Childhood Abuse Contributes to Sexual Compulsivity
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Childhood abuse is a profound factor in the development of sexual compulsivity among both men and women. The psychological and physiological impact of abuse leaves imprints...Mental Health in 2025: Hope for the Future
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The year 2025 marks a pivotal moment in addressing global mental health challenges. With one in five people experiencing mental health conditions worldwide, the landscape of...The End is Just the Beginning: Lessons from the Bible
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Death Brings Life
In the Christian journey, the principle that the end of one season heralds the beginning of another is profoundly illustrated in the Bible. Jesus...The Divine Role of Fathers in Their Daughters' Lives
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Understanding a Daughter’s Heart
Fathers play a unique and irreplaceable role in the lives of their daughters. This role transcends mere provision and protection,...The Importance Fathers Make in the Lives of Their Daughters
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Fathers play a profoundly influential role in shaping their daughters' lives. Yet, this vital role often competes with the demands of modern life, including work, hobbies,...Rituals and the Sexual Addiction Cycle
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sexual addiction is a pervasive and challenging issue that impacts individuals and relationships. Understanding the dynamics of sexual addiction is critical for effective...Understanding the Causes of Sexual Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sexual addiction is a complex behavioral issue, often misunderstood and stigmatized. Many people associate addiction with physical substances, yet sexual addiction, rooted...Impaired Thinking of a Sex Addiction and Getting Help for Sexual Addiction
Sexual addiction often leads to impaired thinking—a state in which rational thought is overridden by emotional and compulsive responses. Many individuals struggling with sex addiction have sat...The Qualifications of a Certified Sex Addiction Specialist (CSAS)
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
In the field of sexual addiction recovery, the role of highly trained and credentialed professionals cannot be overstated. A Certified Sex Addiction Specialist (CSAS) is a...The Biblical Role of Parents to Teach Their Sons About Sexuality and Pornography
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Talking to your sons about sexuality and pornography addiction can feel daunting for many parents. Unfortunately, many adolescents stumble into the world of pornography...Loneliness as a Trigger for Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Loneliness is a powerful emotional state, often overlooked as a significant trigger for pornography addiction. As a clinician specializing in sexual addiction recovery for...Thoughts Are Not Facts
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Our minds are powerful tools, capable of creative problem-solving and imaginative thinking. However, the same creativity can sometimes mislead us, especially when we mistake our...Christmas and Connection While Struggling with Sexual Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The holiday season, especially Christmas, is often associated with joy, connection, and tradition. However, for individuals struggling with pornography or sexual addiction,...Navigating Mental Health Struggles During the Holiday Season
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The holiday season is a time of joy and celebration, but for many, it can also be a period of profound emotional struggle. While the world around us seems filled with...Tolerating Emotional Distress Amongst Sexual Addicts
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Emotional Competence and the Challenges of Addiction
Over my years working with individuals battling sexual addiction, I’ve seen a common thread: difficulty managing...How Faulty Core Beliefs Anchor Sexual Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Faulty core beliefs are pivotal in understanding the development and perpetuation of sexual addiction. My clinical observations with men struggling in this area consistently...Why Sexual Addicts Choose to Disclose Their Addiction God's Design
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The reasons sexual addicts disclose their struggles are as varied as the individuals themselves. While the journey to disclosure is often fraught with fear and uncertainty, it...Using Pornography to Numb Feelings and Emotions
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Pornography addiction often reflects a deeper struggle with emotional regulation. Research shows that individuals addicted to pornography frequently use the behavior as a...Addiction Recovery and a Period of Celibacy â Help for Sexual Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
In the journey of recovering from sexual addiction, a period of celibacy can serve as a powerful tool for personal healing and reclaiming a balanced, healthy relationship...Intimacy Anorexia: A Symptom of Betrayal Trauma
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The Hidden Strain of Betrayal Trauma
Betrayal trauma, often stemming from infidelity or pornography addiction, manifests in profound emotional and relational struggles....Intimacy Anorexia and Intimate Betrayal
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Intimate betrayal leaves deep emotional scars, often rooted in intimacy anorexia and compounded by pornography addiction. This painful combination can leave individuals...Intimate Betrayal and Intimacy Anorexia â Coping with Pain
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The pain of intimate betrayal runs deep, especially for wives facing the fallout of their husband’s struggles with intimacy anorexia and pornography addiction. Over my...The Loss of Emotional Connection in Marriages Affected by Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Understanding the Emotional Disconnect
Pornography addiction profoundly disrupts emotional intimacy within marriage. Over the past 24 years, I have observed a consistent...Wivesâ Trauma After Discovering a Husbandâs Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The discovery of a husband's pornography addiction is often deeply traumatic for wives, disrupting the trust and emotional safety fundamental to a marital bond. This...Understanding Betrayal Trauma in the Wake of Infidelity
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The revelation of a spouse’s infidelity is a devastating experience that often leads to profound emotional and psychological distress, known as betrayal trauma. This...The Role of Self-Awareness in Sexual Addiction Recovery
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Self-Awareness Through Reflection
Developing self-awareness is vital for recovery from sexual addiction, as it fosters a deeper understanding of one’s thoughts,...The Positive Impact of Cellphone Bans on Student Mental Health in Ohio Schools
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
With the growing dependence on smartphones among young people, schools across the United States are grappling with their impact on academic performance, social interactions, and...Self-Awareness and Jesusâ Love in Overcoming Pornography Addiction
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The Role of Self-Awareness in Recovery
Self-awareness is a vital step in healing from pornography addiction. Patrick Carnes writes, “Typical addicts do not know much...The Importance of Self-Care in Pornography Addiction Recovery
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Understanding Self-Care in Recovery
Self-care is a foundational element of recovery from pornography addiction. As Patrick Carnes explains, “Neglect is a common problem...The Role of Accountability in Overcoming Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Pornography addiction is a struggle that impacts countless men, often in silence. Over the years, in my clinical practice, I have observed how deeply secrecy and shame...Preparing for Disclosure: A Key to Recovery from Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The journey to recovery from pornography addiction is fraught with challenges, but it also offers profound opportunities for healing and growth. Among these challenges,...Overcoming Pornography Addiction: A Journey of Healing Together
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Overcoming pornography addiction with your wife’s support can be one of the most transformative experiences in marriage. It fosters openness, breaks down the walls of...Surviving Character Assassination
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Character assassination can be a devastating experience, especially when false information about you is publicized. The emotional toll of such an attack can leave a lasting...Lies That Sex Addicts Tell Themselves: Breaking Barriers to Get Help for Sex Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sex addiction is a pervasive issue that can profoundly affect individuals and their relationships. According to Patrick Carnes (2015), many sex addicts maintain harmful...The Transformative Power of the First Step to Overcome Addiction
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The Significance of the First Step
The First Step in recovery programs is one of the most critical moments for individuals seeking freedom from addiction. It requires...