Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sexual Anorexia and Its Interaction with Intimate Betrayal and Sexual Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sexual anorexia is a lesser-known yet profound condition that I often encounter in my clinical work with couples, particularly those who are grappling with the fallout from...Healing from Narcissistic Abuse: Understanding the Manipulation
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Narcissistic abuse leaves deep emotional scars, often causing significant confusion and self-doubt in its victims. Those impacted by narcissistic manipulation—whether a...The Impact of COVID Lockdowns on Adolescent Males and Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The COVID-19 pandemic brought many challenges, particularly for adolescents who were already struggling with pornography addiction or were vulnerable to developing...The Critical Role of Social Interaction in Adolescent Development
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Social interaction plays a crucial role in the healthy development of adolescents, serving as a foundation for emotional intelligence, relationship-building, and the ability to...The Decline of Male Bonding in North American Culture
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
In the last sixty years, the dynamics of male friendships and bonding have shifted significantly in North American culture. Once characterized by physical affection and deep...Emotional Processing: A Key to Lasting Sexual Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Recovery from sexual addiction is a complex journey that involves far more than just stopping harmful behaviors. While sobriety is essential, true healing requires emotional...The Emotional Roots of Compulsive Pornography Use in Adolescent Boys
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Over the years, my work with adolescent boys struggling with compulsive pornography use has revealed a recurring theme: their behavior is often a reflection of emotional...Why Teenage Boys Are Afraid to Tell Their Parents They Are Addicted to Pornography
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Many parents are unaware of the silent struggles their adolescent sons face with pornography addiction. Previously working as a therapist with sexual addiction recovery, I...Assessing Sexual Addiction: A Clinical Perspective
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
As a Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Addiction Specialist, I have spent many years working with individuals who struggle with sexual addiction. In my clinical...The Impact of Intimate Betrayal on Mothers and Wives
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Intimate betrayal, particularly within marriages, can have a profound impact on mothers and wives, often leading to devastating emotional, mental, and even physical...The Role of Trauma in Shaping Sexual Fantasies and Desires
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Unresolved trauma, especially from childhood, often plays a significant role in the formation of sexual fantasies and desires. When individuals experience trauma,...Trauma Bonding and Sexualized Attachments
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Trauma bonding is a complex psychological phenomenon. In cases of sexual abuse, trauma bonding often emerges, entangling the victim in a confusing mix of attachment,...Trauma Repetition as a Form of Sexualized Attachments
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Trauma can shape a person’s emotional and psychological landscape in profound ways. For many individuals, early trauma influences their adult behaviors, especially in...Understanding Sexualized Attachments: Patterns and Pathways to Healing
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sexualized attachments refer to complex emotional and psychological bonds intertwined with sexual behavior, often rooted in childhood trauma, emotional neglect, or early...Recovery from Sexual Addiction: Sobriety vs Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
When it comes to sexual addiction recovery, many people mistakenly believe that simply avoiding unhealthy sexual behaviors defines success. While stopping the misbehavior is...The Rising Anxiety Among Adolescents: Causes and Solutions
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
In recent years, anxiety has become one of the most prevalent mental health concerns among adolescents. The pressure to excel academically, navigate social media, and cope...The Role of Attachment Issues in Sexual Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Addressing attachment issues is a crucial element in the recovery from sexual addiction, including pornography addiction. Research has shown that individuals struggling with...Healing from Betrayal Trauma: Overcoming the Pain of Intimate Betrayal
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Betrayal trauma is a profound emotional and psychological wound often inflicted by intimate partners through infidelity, pornography addiction, or other breaches of trust....Myths Surrounding Juveniles Who Sexually Offend
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
The topic of juvenile sexual offenders is rife with misconceptions. One of the most persistent myths is that these juveniles are inherently "bad" or destined to...Caring for Parents in Their Old Age
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Caring for our aging parents is both a privilege and a challenge. As children of elderly parents, we are called to honor and care for them as they age, just as they cared for us...The Arousal Template Impacted by Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
In the realm of sexual addiction therapy, the concept of the "arousal template" is critical to understanding how individuals develop unhealthy sexual patterns....What the Bible Teaches About Pain and Suffering
By Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Pain and suffering are inevitable parts of the human experience. As believers, we often face moments of deep hurt, grief, and confusion, wondering why God allows such trials....Our Brains Are Wired for Connection: The Importance of Social Bonds
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Humans are inherently social beings. From the earliest days of human history, survival depended on forming strong social bonds. Our brains are designed to connect with others,...Healing from Intimate Betrayal and Rebuilding Trust
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Intimate betrayal, such as infidelity or pornography addiction, can have a devastating impact on relationships, causing profound emotional pain. This type of betrayal often...The Importance of Addressing Attachment Issues in Sex Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sex addiction is a complex issue, often misunderstood by both those who suffer from it and even some professionals who aim to treat it. In my 23 years of clinical work,...Correct Information About Pornography Addiction Helps Men Permanently Overcome the Problem
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Pornography addiction is a pervasive issue that affects countless men, often leading to feelings of shame, isolation, and hopelessness. Over the years, I have worked with...Observations How Anxiety Manifests in Adults, Adolescents, and Children
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Anxiety is one of the most prevalent mental health issues affecting individuals across various age groups. Clinically, anxiety presents differently in adults, adolescents, and...The Difference Between Worry and Anxiety
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Worry and anxiety are often used interchangeably, but they represent distinct emotional experiences. While both can be uncomfortable and mentally taxing, they differ in...What is Neuro-Divergent?
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Neurodiversity is a concept that embraces the variety of ways human brains function, recognizing that differences in thinking, learning, and behavior are not deficits but...Clinical Observation of Boys and Pornography Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Over the years, my clinical work with boys struggling with pornography addiction has offered deep insights into the underlying emotional and psychological factors driving...Sexual Addiction as an Intimacy Disorder
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sexual addiction is a complex and multifaceted issue, affecting not just individuals but also their relationships. While it is often understood as a compulsive behavior,...The Importance of Prodependence in Helping Partners with Intimate Betrayal
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Intimate betrayal, especially in the context of sexual addiction, leaves partners devastated and overwhelmed. Historically, models of support for these partners have often...Intimate Betrayal Counseling: Healing from the Destruction of Sexual Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sexual addiction has far-reaching and devastating effects, especially when it manifests within marriages and families. Often characterized by compulsive sexual behavior, it...Shame and Hiding Behavior in Men Struggling with Sexual Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Men dealing with sexual addiction frequently find themselves caught in a destructive cycle of shame and secrecy. The overwhelming sense of guilt associated with their...Physical Symptoms of Betrayal Trauma: Parallels with PTSD
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Betrayal trauma is an often-overlooked form of emotional and psychological injury that can cause profound physical symptoms, closely mirroring those of Post-Traumatic Stress...Observations Treating Sexual Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
In my 25 years of working with hundreds of sex addicts, one of the most insidious patterns I’ve observed is the role of hiding and secrecy in the progression of...Navigating Adolescence: Understanding and Supporting Teenage Boys
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Working clinically with adolescent boys over the years has given me a unique window into the challenges they face as they transition from childhood into adulthood. This phase of...Understanding Adolescent Depression in the United States
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Depression among adolescents in the United States has become a significant concern. Recent data shows an alarming rise in depressive symptoms, with an increasing number of young...The Positive Impact of Small Groups on Teens in the Church
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
In today’s fast-paced world, teens often find themselves navigating through a myriad of challenges, from peer pressure to academic stress, all while trying to figure out...Sex Addiction Specialist and Three Stages of Sexual Addiction Recovery
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Sex addiction is a complex and pervasive issue that affects countless individuals and their loved ones. As a Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Addiction Specialist, I...The Dangers of Pornography Addiction & Sexual Addiction Specialists
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
In my years of practice as a Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Addiction Specialist, I’ve worked with over 1,700 clients and family members who have been deeply...Teaching Young Men About Christian Values and Sexuality
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
In today's world, guiding young men in understanding Christian values and sexuality is a crucial task for parents, pastors, and church leaders. As adolescents and young men...The Importance of Parents Teaching Their Sons About the Dangers of Pornography
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
In a digital age where explicit content is more accessible than ever, it is crucial for parents to educate their sons about the dangers of pornography. The pervasive nature of...The Impact of a Father's Influence on His Son's Sense of Identity
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
A father’s role in his son’s life extends far beyond providing for his physical needs; it is deeply entwined with his son’s developing sense of identity. Sons...Prodependence vs. Codependency: A New Perspective on Loving Partners in Addiction
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
Over the past twenty years, I’ve had the privilege of working closely with Dr. Kim Buck as together we helped partners of sex addicts maneuver through the minefield of...The Importance of Crisis Resolution in Betrayal Trauma Therapy
By Floyd Godfrey, PhD
When addressing betrayal trauma, especially in relationships where addiction is involved, the initial therapeutic focus is crucial. Many counselors, however, make the...The Essential Role of Fathers in Their Sons' Healthy Development
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The role of a father in a son's life is foundational to his emotional, psychological, and social development. While all children need the presence and involvement of their...The Healing Power of Vulnerability
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
Vulnerability, often perceived as a weakness, is in fact a powerful force for healing. It is the key that unlocks the door to authentic connection, self-acceptance, and...The Lasting Impact of Unmet Needs in Infancy and Childhood
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The early years of life are critical in shaping a child's emotional and psychological foundation. When the needs of an infant or young child go unmet, it can create a...The Importance of Early Bonding Between Children and Parents
Dr. Floyd Godfrey
The foundational years of a child's life play a crucial role in shaping their emotional and psychological well-being. It is during these formative years that the bond...