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The Price of Crushing - God's Method for Our Growth

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In the journey of faith, many of us face moments of intense pressure and hardship—times when life feels like it is pressing us to the brink. These moments of...

Guiding Young Men into Healthy Masculinity: The Role of Male Mentors

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In today's complex social landscape, the concept of masculinity is undergoing significant shifts, leaving many young men uncertain about what it means to be "a...

The Lasting Impact of Unmet Needs in Infancy and Childhood

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The early years of life are critical in shaping a child's emotional and psychological foundation. When the needs of an infant or young child go unmet, it can create a...

The Importance of Human Connection for Healthy Living

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Human connection is more than just a social luxury; it is a fundamental component of healthy living. Modern research in psychology and neuroscience has revealed that our need...

The Importance of Fathers Teaching Their Sons About Puberty and Healthy Sexuality

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD As boys approach puberty, they encounter a flood of physical, emotional, and psychological changes that can be overwhelming without proper guidance. Fathers play a critical...

The Importance of Early Bonding Between Children and Parents

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The foundational years of a child's life play a crucial role in shaping their emotional and psychological well-being. It is during these formative years that the bond...

The Healing Power of Vulnerability

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Vulnerability, often perceived as a weakness, is in fact a powerful force for healing. It is the key that unlocks the door to authentic connection, self-acceptance, and...

God Shouts in Our Pain

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Pain is an inevitable part of the human experience, yet it is something we instinctively avoid. No one willingly embraces suffering, and as T.D. Jakes aptly notes in Crushing:...

God Develops Our Gifting Through Pain and Suffering

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The journey of discovering and developing our God-given gifts is often intertwined with experiences of pain and suffering. While it is natural to desire a life free from...

Understanding Withdrawal from Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD As a mental health professional specializing in sexual addiction, I have had the privilege of walking with many clients through the challenging journey of recovery. One of...

What is Neuro-Divergent?

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Neurodiversity is a concept that embraces the variety of ways human brains function, recognizing that differences in thinking, learning, and behavior are not deficits but...

What the Bible Teaches About Pain and Suffering

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey Pain and suffering are inevitable parts of the human experience. As believers, we often face moments of deep hurt, grief, and confusion, wondering why God allows such trials....

Why Boys Who Are Sexually Abused Often Don't Tell

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Sexual abuse is a devastating experience for any child, but when it comes to boys, the silence surrounding the issue can be especially isolating. Studies show that boys who are...

Why Teenage Boys Are Afraid to Tell Their Parents They Are Addicted to Pornography

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Many parents are unaware of the silent struggles their adolescent sons face with pornography addiction. Previously working as a therapist with sexual addiction recovery, I...

The Rising Anxiety Among Adolescents: Causes and Solutions

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In recent years, anxiety has become one of the most prevalent mental health concerns among adolescents. The pressure to excel academically, navigate social media, and cope...

The Role of Attachment Issues in Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Addressing attachment issues is a crucial element in the recovery from sexual addiction, including pornography addiction. Research has shown that individuals struggling with...

The Role of Disclosure Sessions in Sexual Addiction Recovery and Intimate Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In my work as a sex addiction counselor, I have seen firsthand the devastating effects that intimate betrayal can have on couples. When someone in a committed relationship...

The Role of Trauma in Shaping Sexual Fantasies and Desires

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Unresolved trauma, especially from childhood, often plays a significant role in the formation of sexual fantasies and desires. When individuals experience trauma,...

Transgender Questions and The Cass Report

The Cass report, led by Dr. Hilary Cass, is a comprehensive independent review commissioned by NHS England to address the rising number of young people, particularly adolescents, seeking gender...

Trauma Bonding and Sexualized Attachments

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Trauma bonding is a complex psychological phenomenon. In cases of sexual abuse, trauma bonding often emerges, entangling the victim in a confusing mix of attachment,...

Trauma Repetition as a Form of Sexualized Attachments

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Trauma can shape a person’s emotional and psychological landscape in profound ways. For many individuals, early trauma influences their adult behaviors, especially in...

Understanding Adolescent Depression in the United States

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Depression among adolescents in the United States has become a significant concern. Recent data shows an alarming rise in depressive symptoms, with an increasing number of young...

Understanding Internal vs. External Anxiety

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Anxiety is a common emotional experience, but it manifests in different forms. It can be triggered by external factors—events, situations, or challenges outside our...

Understanding Sexualized Attachments: Patterns and Pathways to Healing

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexualized attachments refer to complex emotional and psychological bonds intertwined with sexual behavior, often rooted in childhood trauma, emotional neglect, or early...

The Impact of COVID Lockdowns on Adolescent Males and Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The COVID-19 pandemic brought many challenges, particularly for adolescents who were already struggling with pornography addiction or were vulnerable to developing...

The Impact of Intimate Betrayal on Mothers and Wives

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Intimate betrayal, particularly within marriages, can have a profound impact on mothers and wives, often leading to devastating emotional, mental, and even physical...

The Importance of Addressing Attachment Issues in Sex Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sex addiction is a complex issue, often misunderstood by both those who suffer from it and even some professionals who aim to treat it. In my 23 years of clinical work,...

The Importance of Crisis Resolution in Betrayal Trauma Therapy

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD When addressing betrayal trauma, especially in relationships where addiction is involved, the initial therapeutic focus is crucial. Many counselors, however, make the...

The Importance of Parents Teaching Their Sons About the Dangers of Pornography

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In a digital age where explicit content is more accessible than ever, it is crucial for parents to educate their sons about the dangers of pornography. The pervasive nature of...

The Importance of Prodependence in Helping Partners with Intimate Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Intimate betrayal, especially in the context of sexual addiction, leaves partners devastated and overwhelmed. Historically, models of support for these partners have often...

The Positive Impact of Small Groups on Teens in the Church

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In today’s fast-paced world, teens often find themselves navigating through a myriad of challenges, from peer pressure to academic stress, all while trying to figure out...

The Critical Role of Social Interaction in Adolescent Development

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Social interaction plays a crucial role in the healthy development of adolescents, serving as a foundation for emotional intelligence, relationship-building, and the ability to...

The Dangers of Pornography Addiction & Sexual Addiction Specialists

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In my years of practice as a Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Addiction Specialist, I’ve worked with over 1,700 clients and family members who have been deeply...

The Decline of Male Bonding in North American Culture

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In the last sixty years, the dynamics of male friendships and bonding have shifted significantly in North American culture. Once characterized by physical affection and deep...

The Difference Between Worry and Anxiety

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Worry and anxiety are often used interchangeably, but they represent distinct emotional experiences. While both can be uncomfortable and mentally taxing, they differ in...

The Emotional Roots of Compulsive Pornography Use in Adolescent Boys

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Over the years, my work with adolescent boys struggling with compulsive pornography use has revealed a recurring theme: their behavior is often a reflection of emotional...

The Essential Role of Fathers in Their Sons' Healthy Development

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The role of a father in a son's life is foundational to his emotional, psychological, and social development. While all children need the presence and involvement of their...

The Healing Process After Intimate Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Intimate betrayal is one of the most devastating experiences a person can face. When a partner engages in infidelity or deceit, the emotional impact can be overwhelming. The...

The Impact of a Father's Influence on His Son's Sense of Identity

Dr. Floyd Godfrey A father’s role in his son’s life extends far beyond providing for his physical needs; it is deeply entwined with his son’s developing sense of identity. Sons...

Sexual Anorexia and Its Interaction with Intimate Betrayal and Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual anorexia is a lesser-known yet profound condition that I often encounter in my clinical work with couples, particularly those who are grappling with the fallout from...

Shame and Hiding Behavior in Men Struggling with Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Men dealing with sexual addiction frequently find themselves caught in a destructive cycle of shame and secrecy. The overwhelming sense of guilt associated with their...

Sleep Disturbances and Appetite Changes in Sexual Addiction Withdrawal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD As a mental health professional specializing in sexual addiction, I have encountered a variety of withdrawal symptoms that significantly impact individuals in recovery....

Surrendering to God's Will: Step One in Healing Pornography Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey As a Christian counselor, I’ve had the privilege of working with many men of faith who are struggling with the bondage of pornography addiction. These men, often...

Surviving Pain and Difficulty in Life

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Life’s difficulties often come when we least expect them. Many of these hardships arise from the injustice of others’ actions, leaving us feeling broken or in...

Teaching Young Men About Christian Values and Sexuality

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In today's world, guiding young men in understanding Christian values and sexuality is a crucial task for parents, pastors, and church leaders. As adolescents and young men...

The Aftermath of Narcissistic Abuse: Understanding the Smear Campaign

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Narcissistic abuse leaves deep emotional scars, often well after the relationship has ended. One of the most insidious tactics that narcissists employ to protect their...

The Arousal Template Impacted by Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In the realm of sexual addiction therapy, the concept of the "arousal template" is critical to understanding how individuals develop unhealthy sexual patterns....

Observations Treating Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In my 25 years of working with hundreds of sex addicts, one of the most insidious patterns I’ve observed is the role of hiding and secrecy in the progression of...

Our Brains Are Wired for Connection: The Importance of Social Bonds

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Humans are inherently social beings. From the earliest days of human history, survival depended on forming strong social bonds. Our brains are designed to connect with others,...

Physical Symptoms of Betrayal Trauma: Parallels with PTSD

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Betrayal trauma is an often-overlooked form of emotional and psychological injury that can cause profound physical symptoms, closely mirroring those of Post-Traumatic Stress...
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