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Trauma Bonding and Sexualized Attachments

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Trauma bonding is a complex psychological phenomenon. In cases of sexual abuse, trauma bonding often emerges, entangling the victim in a confusing mix of attachment,...

Trauma Repetition as a Form of Sexualized Attachments

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Trauma can shape a person’s emotional and psychological landscape in profound ways. For many individuals, early trauma influences their adult behaviors, especially in...

Understanding Adolescent Depression in the United States

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Depression among adolescents in the United States has become a significant concern. Recent data shows an alarming rise in depressive symptoms, with an increasing number of young...

Understanding Internal vs. External Anxiety

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Anxiety is a common emotional experience, but it manifests in different forms. It can be triggered by external factors—events, situations, or challenges outside our...

The Impact of COVID Lockdowns on Adolescent Males and Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The COVID-19 pandemic brought many challenges, particularly for adolescents who were already struggling with pornography addiction or were vulnerable to developing...

The Impact of Intimate Betrayal on Mothers and Wives

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Intimate betrayal, particularly within marriages, can have a profound impact on mothers and wives, often leading to devastating emotional, mental, and even physical...

The Importance of Addressing Attachment Issues in Sex Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sex addiction is a complex issue, often misunderstood by both those who suffer from it and even some professionals who aim to treat it. In my 23 years of clinical work,...

The Importance of Crisis Resolution in Betrayal Trauma Therapy

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD When addressing betrayal trauma, especially in relationships where addiction is involved, the initial therapeutic focus is crucial. Many counselors, however, make the...

The Importance of Parents Teaching Their Sons About the Dangers of Pornography

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In a digital age where explicit content is more accessible than ever, it is crucial for parents to educate their sons about the dangers of pornography. The pervasive nature of...

The Importance of Prodependence in Helping Partners with Intimate Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Intimate betrayal, especially in the context of sexual addiction, leaves partners devastated and overwhelmed. Historically, models of support for these partners have often...

The Positive Impact of Small Groups on Teens in the Church

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In today’s fast-paced world, teens often find themselves navigating through a myriad of challenges, from peer pressure to academic stress, all while trying to figure out...

The Critical Role of Social Interaction in Adolescent Development

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Social interaction plays a crucial role in the healthy development of adolescents, serving as a foundation for emotional intelligence, relationship-building, and the ability to...

The Dangers of Pornography Addiction & Sexual Addiction Specialists

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In my years of practice as a Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Addiction Specialist, I’ve worked with over 1,700 clients and family members who have been deeply...

The Decline of Male Bonding in North American Culture

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In the last sixty years, the dynamics of male friendships and bonding have shifted significantly in North American culture. Once characterized by physical affection and deep...

The Difference Between Worry and Anxiety

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Worry and anxiety are often used interchangeably, but they represent distinct emotional experiences. While both can be uncomfortable and mentally taxing, they differ in...

The Emotional Roots of Compulsive Pornography Use in Adolescent Boys

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Over the years, my work with adolescent boys struggling with compulsive pornography use has revealed a recurring theme: their behavior is often a reflection of emotional...

The Essential Role of Fathers in Their Sons' Healthy Development

Dr. Floyd Godfrey The role of a father in a son's life is foundational to his emotional, psychological, and social development. While all children need the presence and involvement of their...

The Healing Process After Intimate Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Intimate betrayal is one of the most devastating experiences a person can face. When a partner engages in infidelity or deceit, the emotional impact can be overwhelming. The...

The Impact of a Father's Influence on His Son's Sense of Identity

Dr. Floyd Godfrey A father’s role in his son’s life extends far beyond providing for his physical needs; it is deeply entwined with his son’s developing sense of identity. Sons...

Sexual Anorexia and Its Interaction with Intimate Betrayal and Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual anorexia is a lesser-known yet profound condition that I often encounter in my clinical work with couples, particularly those who are grappling with the fallout from...

Shame and Hiding Behavior in Men Struggling with Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Men dealing with sexual addiction frequently find themselves caught in a destructive cycle of shame and secrecy. The overwhelming sense of guilt associated with their...

Sleep Disturbances and Appetite Changes in Sexual Addiction Withdrawal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD As a mental health professional specializing in sexual addiction, I have encountered a variety of withdrawal symptoms that significantly impact individuals in recovery....

Surrendering to God's Will: Step One in Healing Pornography Addiction

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey As a Christian counselor, I’ve had the privilege of working with many men of faith who are struggling with the bondage of pornography addiction. These men, often...

Surviving Pain and Difficulty in Life

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Life’s difficulties often come when we least expect them. Many of these hardships arise from the injustice of others’ actions, leaving us feeling broken or in...

Teaching Young Men About Christian Values and Sexuality

Dr. Floyd Godfrey In today's world, guiding young men in understanding Christian values and sexuality is a crucial task for parents, pastors, and church leaders. As adolescents and young men...

The Aftermath of Narcissistic Abuse: Understanding the Smear Campaign

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Narcissistic abuse leaves deep emotional scars, often well after the relationship has ended. One of the most insidious tactics that narcissists employ to protect their...

The Arousal Template Impacted by Pornography Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In the realm of sexual addiction therapy, the concept of the "arousal template" is critical to understanding how individuals develop unhealthy sexual patterns....

Observations Treating Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In my 25 years of working with hundreds of sex addicts, one of the most insidious patterns I’ve observed is the role of hiding and secrecy in the progression of...

Our Brains Are Wired for Connection: The Importance of Social Bonds

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Humans are inherently social beings. From the earliest days of human history, survival depended on forming strong social bonds. Our brains are designed to connect with others,...

Physical Symptoms of Betrayal Trauma: Parallels with PTSD

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Betrayal trauma is an often-overlooked form of emotional and psychological injury that can cause profound physical symptoms, closely mirroring those of Post-Traumatic Stress...

Prodependence vs. Codependency: A New Perspective on Loving Partners in Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Over the past twenty years, I’ve had the privilege of working closely with Dr. Kim Buck as together we helped partners of sex addicts maneuver through the minefield of...

Recovery from Sexual Addiction: Sobriety vs Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD When it comes to sexual addiction recovery, many people mistakenly believe that simply avoiding unhealthy sexual behaviors defines success. While stopping the misbehavior is...

Sex Addiction Specialist and Three Stages of Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sex addiction is a complex and pervasive issue that affects countless individuals and their loved ones. As a Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Addiction Specialist, I...

Sexual Addiction as an Intimacy Disorder

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction is a complex and multifaceted issue, affecting not just individuals but also their relationships. While it is often understood as a compulsive behavior,...

How to Respond to Your Wife When She's Having a Trauma Response Following Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD When a wife experiences betrayal, especially in the context of sexual addiction, her emotional world is often shattered. Through my clinical work with couples, I’ve...

How Young Men Can Talk to Their Parents About Struggling with Pornography

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD For many young men, the topic of pornography is sensitive and difficult to talk about, especially with parents or trusted adults. Shame, embarrassment, and fear of judgment...

Intimate Betrayal Counseling: Healing from the Destruction of Sexual Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Sexual addiction has far-reaching and devastating effects, especially when it manifests within marriages and families. Often characterized by compulsive sexual behavior, it...

Men's Emotional Barriers to Seeking Support for Porn Addiction

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In Western culture, men often struggle to express their emotions, especially when it comes to vulnerability. Many men find it difficult to open up about their feelings,...

Myths Surrounding Juveniles Who Sexually Offend

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD The topic of juvenile sexual offenders is rife with misconceptions. One of the most persistent myths is that these juveniles are inherently "bad" or destined to...

Navigating Adolescence: Understanding and Supporting Teenage Boys

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Working clinically with adolescent boys over the years has given me a unique window into the challenges they face as they transition from childhood into adulthood. This phase of...

Neuropathways and Sexual Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD In the field of sexual addiction counseling, understanding the underlying neurobiological processes is key to helping clients break free from compulsive behaviors. Sexual...

Observations How Anxiety Manifests in Adults, Adolescents, and Children

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Anxiety is one of the most prevalent mental health issues affecting individuals across various age groups. Clinically, anxiety presents differently in adults, adolescents, and...

Facilitating Dysfunctional Disclosures in Sex Addiction Recovery

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Throughout my clinical experience as a Certified Sex Addiction Specialist, I have witnessed firsthand the complex dynamics involved in disclosures of infidelity and...

Healing from Betrayal Trauma: Overcoming the Pain of Intimate Betrayal

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Betrayal trauma is a profound emotional and psychological wound often inflicted by intimate partners through infidelity, pornography addiction, or other breaches of trust....

Healing from Intimate Betrayal and Rebuilding Trust

By Floyd Godfrey, PhD Intimate betrayal, such as infidelity or pornography addiction, can have a devastating impact on relationships, causing profound emotional pain. This type of betrayal often...

Healing from Narcissistic Abuse: Understanding the Manipulation

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Narcissistic abuse leaves deep emotional scars, often causing significant confusion and self-doubt in its victims. Those impacted by narcissistic manipulation—whether a...

Hiding and Secrecy in Addiction Recovery - The Power of Transparency

By Dr. Floyd Godfrey In my years as a Christian counselor, I’ve seen the devastating effects that addiction can have on individuals and families. One of the most challenging aspects of...

Holding onto Faith During Pain and Challenge

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Life’s challenges can be overwhelming, especially when we face deep personal pain or struggle with mental health issues. During these times, it is not uncommon for...

Understanding Complex PTSD

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD) is a condition that arises from prolonged or repeated trauma, typically occurring in early childhood. Unlike traditional PTSD,...

Understanding Self-Injury in Teens and Young Adults

Dr. Floyd Godfrey Working with teenagers for over 20 years has given me firsthand insight into the struggles that many young people face today. Through my career, I have encountered numerous...
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