By Floyd Godfrey, PhD

The Growing Threat of Sextortion

Sextortion is a deeply troubling and growing threat, particularly for teens and young adults. With the rise of digital communication and social media, predators exploit vulnerable individuals by coercing them into sending explicit images or videos—often under the guise of friendship or romance. Once the victim complies, the perpetrator uses these images to blackmail them, demanding more explicit content or even money under the threat of public humiliation.

In clinical work, I have witnessed the devastating impact of sextortion on many young clients. The fear and shame associated with their experiences often lead to severe emotional distress, isolation, and even suicidal ideation. Tragically, many feel trapped, believing that there is no escape from the relentless threats of their abusers.

The Role of Pornography Addiction

Pornography addiction plays a critical role in the rise of sextortion cases. Many young individuals, often desensitized by years of pornography use, develop unrealistic sexual expectations and fall into high-risk online behaviors. Research suggests that compulsive pornography use alters the brain's reward system, making individuals more susceptible to engaging in dangerous digital interactions.

For some, habitual pornography consumption creates a distorted sense of intimacy, leading them to trust strangers online who manipulate them into sharing explicit content. Additionally, pornography addiction contributes to secrecy and shame, making it even harder for victims to seek help when they become trapped in a sextortion scheme.

Breaking the Cycle of Shame

One of the greatest barriers to recovery from sextortion is the overwhelming sense of shame that victims experience. Many feel personally responsible for their victimization, believing that they have irreparably damaged their lives. However, it is essential to recognize that sextortion is a form of exploitation, not a personal failing.

In my clinical work, I have observed how shame paralyzes victims, preventing them from reaching out for support. Teaching young people to reject this shame and seek help is crucial. Mental health professionals, educators, and parents must emphasize that recovery is possible and that they are not alone in their struggles.

Suicide Risk and Emotional Devastation

The emotional toll of sextortion is profound. Victims often experience extreme anxiety, depression, and self-hatred. Tragically, suicidal thoughts are common among those ensnared in these manipulative schemes. They feel trapped, unable to imagine a future where they can reclaim their dignity and move forward.

Research highlights how shame and secrecy intensify the mental health crisis in victims of online exploitation. It is critical that we normalize discussions about sextortion and encourage individuals to seek support from trained professionals who can guide them through the recovery process.

Seeking Support and Restoring Hope

Despite the darkness that sextortion brings, there is hope. Many individuals have successfully navigated their way out of these situations and rebuilt their lives. Therapy, support groups, and professional coaching provide safe spaces for victims to process their experiences and regain their confidence.

It is vital that young people understand that they are not alone and that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Mental health professionals, parents, and educators must work together to create environments where victims feel safe coming forward. Healing is possible, and a future free from shame and fear awaits those who take the first step toward recovery.

Floyd Godfrey, PhD, is a Clinical Sexologist and a Certified Sex Addiction Specialist. He has been guiding clients since 2000 and currently speaks and provides consulting and mental health coaching across the globe. To learn more about Floyd Godfrey, PhD, please visit his website: www.FloydGodfrey.com.