By Floyd Godfrey, PhD

Understanding Pornography Addiction
Pornography addiction affects countless individuals and families, leaving a trail of emotional pain and fractured relationships. Renowned speaker and author Matt Fradd sheds light on the realities of recovery, emphasizing both its challenges and immense rewards. In his book, Delivered – True Stories of Men and Women Who Turned From Porn to Purity (2013), Fradd provides invaluable insights that inspire hope for those seeking freedom. As he notes, "Recovery is hard work, and there are falls along the way. However, I have seen many men succeed" (p. 57). These words serve as a reminder that while the path is arduous, success is achievable with persistence and support.

Educational Strategies for Overcoming Addiction
Fradd underscores the importance of understanding the impact of pornography addiction on oneself and others. He shares, "I also know how deeply porn hurts wives and marriages. I never want to hurt my wife the way I've seen other wives hurt by porn" (p. 58). Recognizing the destructive effects of pornography can be a powerful motivator to pursue change.

For parents, Fradd highlights the responsibility to set an example, stating, "In addition, I want to be a good role model for my son. I want him to grow up to be a virtuous, Godly man. To do this I must model it for him" (p. 58). This perspective illustrates the role of education in recovery—not only to learn healthier behaviors but also to inspire the next generation.

The Role of Therapeutic and Coaching Interventions
Therapeutic interventions and coaching are integral to the recovery process. Fradd encourages seeking professional help, declaring, "I urge you to get help. You don't have to do it alone" (p. 58). Pornography addiction thrives in isolation, often fueled by feelings of shame and guilt. He advises, "Don't let fear, guilt and shame prevent you from getting the help you need and deserve" (p. 58). Professional support can help individuals process these emotions and develop actionable strategies to overcome addictive patterns.

Recovery is also a spiritual journey. Fradd reflects, "God wants all men to be strong leaders, providers, and protectors of our families, communities, churches, and society. We cannot do this if we are enslaved" (p. 58). Therapeutic practices can integrate this holistic view, addressing emotional, physical, and spiritual dimensions of healing.

Encouragement for Recovery
Despite the challenges, Fradd affirms that recovery is possible, declaring, "There is hope! Recovery is possible. No one has to live their life enslaved to this addiction" (p. 58). This assurance, coupled with evidence-based interventions, is a beacon for individuals and families navigating the difficult terrain of addiction.

Those who commit to the hard work of recovery often experience profound transformation. As Fradd emphasizes, the journey is marked by growth, healing, and the restoration of relationships. Recovery equips individuals to live with integrity and strength, free from the chains of addiction.

Floyd Godfrey, PhD is a Clinical Sexologist and a Certified Sex Addiction Specialist. He has been guiding clients since 2000 and currently speaks and provides consulting and mental health coaching across the globe. To learn more about Floyd Godfrey, PhD please visit his website: www.FloydGodfrey.com.

References
Fradd, M. (2013). Delivered – True stories of men and women who turned from porn to purity. Catholic Answers Press.